Wife seems to be getting into it

[WellKeptDh]

Yes my wife is getting into it also. She enjoys not having to get cleaned up after sex.

Some back story on our love life, she has not been one to initiate sex. Since I have been locked up I have eaten more pussy in the last 2 weeks than in the last 15 years. She now grabs my hand and leads me upstairs to dive my head between her thighs and I love it.

After some coaxing she died admit she enjoyed it.

[HelensCuck]

Its' funny how it goes sometimes. I'd had the desire to be locked up for a couple of years and had even brought a CB which I wore without my wife's knowledge.

But eventually I 'came out' with my desire and my wife just took it on board. If I'd known that it was not going to be a problem I'd have done it sooner.

At first she was doing it for me but now it's something that she is very much into, She tells me that she loves being in control of my cock which really turns her on and loves the fact that I spend entire evenings making her cum without her feeling any pressure to reciprocate. I'm not locked for as long as many of you here are (about 7 to 10 days is the most), but it is becoming more frequent and she is getting more orgasms now than she ever did in 12 years of marriage.

[Anymouse]

My own sweetie also enjoys the attentions (particularly the gentle feather-touch caressing). Her previous marriage was to a person who was essentially asexual, and it about drove her bonkers.

When I brought up the chastity issue, she was terrified I was going to turn out like her previous hub. Not a chance. That wasn't the point of the fantasy-become-reality. Ignoring my wife's pleasure was the farthest thing from my mind.

[lockme]

Hi ...you are all very luck to have wives who are into it I am so jealous, I got my cage without my wife knowing and wore it a few times but I wanted more... She has agreed to lock me up as i am now for the past three days but she does not want to tease or use me for her sexual pleasure ,she just keeps saying she is not like that ? But she does love all the extra work i am doing around the house....what should I do just golf tight or stop doing the extra things and hope she misses them ?

[HerTDToy]

Mistress Ivey has a post on how to introduce the idea of a Female Led Relationship (FLR) to your spouse. The posts are called "For Gentlemen only" and talks about how to go out of your way to please your wife for a week or so, giving her a taste of what could be - and then how to approach her with the idea of chastity. It's well worth the read.

http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/2013/0 ... art-1.html
http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/2013/0 ... art-2.html

Since you've already approached her with the idea though, you need to go out of your way to please her and show her the benefits of the lifestyle. As you do this, my bet is that your efforts to please her will be reciprocated as teasing / denial.

Good luck!

[LockedforHer]

My Wife will rub herself and allow the cage inside her but this has taken a very long time. At first she would not even talk about it.

We have the points system, she is in control of this and I have no say in bonus or deducted points she feels are appropriate. She likes the idea of me doing housework and her having a relaxing time. However, she still is not totally OK with the cage, it has become part of life and not all about sex.

We love eash other more than ever and she appears to like all the attention I give her, some day I am sure she will be the one who instigates the whole locking up thing.