Wife seems to be getting into it

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LockedforHer
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Wife seems to be getting into it

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My wife now seems to be getting into the chastity idea. She has agreed that she will decide when I am to be free and no agreed time will be set, she has said a minimum of 3 months sound good, but it may be longer. :o

She has said that I will be in pain later as she has a plan to make me try to get hard, she smiled and said that it is fun seeing me squirming when my balls are being pulled away by the CB6000. :oops:

I wonder what she has planned for later, GULP.... :oops:
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Well Wifey got me to do the ironing and dishwasher whilst she walked around in only a very short T-Shirt, she seemed to really enjoy bending over in from of me with her legs spread just enough.....

Later she had me fuck her with the cage still on and said " I think that Wilbert is much better this way, no mess and I love your face when he tries to get hard ". I loved the sensation of being in but still inside the cage.

We have spoken about the time and she believes that no deadline is to be set, she will decide when I am to be released.

This is great fun, we have tried a points system, a raffle type system, fixed deadline etc... this time my wife seems alot happier with the she decides when method... It is also alot more exciting for me, never knowing when...
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It's a bit like bump starting a car; you set it up and begin by trying to move heaven & earth to make it go anywhere. Momentum takes over and it barely takes any effort but you're still doing the pushing and then the one that you've put in the driving seat drops the clutch and takes you into a new world.

The challenge now is to hang on & enjoy the ride. :D
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Slowly, slowly appears to be the way.

My wife has been into the idea from the start but did not like the idea of having a set date for release as she may not feel releasing me on that date and that would cause arguments. We tried the points system but she gets fed up with keeping the points tally up to date and just releases me anyway. We tried a raffle type system but she is very nice and puts down 1 week as a maximum.

With the idea that she can decide she seems a lot happier as she has no pressure and no work to do.

At first I thought that chastity would be all very sexual but I now realize that she like the fact that she is free from being pestered by me for sex, I have a lot higher sex drive that her, and she loves sex and having me cum in her but does not like the messy side of me cumming in her so she can now have me pleasure her with the cage on without the mess.

With regard to the liking it when I squirm when she teases me, that is a new one, and she appears to be showing that she has a little sadistic streak in her after all.

She says that she believes 3 months sounds good as a starting point, I wonder how long she will leave me locked up this time...

I have started to learn one thing though, the chastity lifestyle as a couple takes a little work at the start. However, it appears once your wife gets into it they love the idea....
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LockedforHer wrote:I have started to learn one thing though, the chastity lifestyle as a couple takes a little work at the start. However, it appears once your wife gets into it they love the idea....
Couldn't agree more. My wife commented on Sunday morning lying in bed eating her breakfast I had just made her how she could not have imagined in her wildest dreams that we would be where we are. We are just half way through a minimum 100 days and in the beginning there was discussion of it being less, maybe coming out for Christmas. Now her attitude is a most definite "No way, Jose" .

She also used to unlock me for gardening and some parties we attended but that has stopped too. Now she just tells me I have to be very careful and then she teases the fuck out of me when we are out.

I really love it, but I am not in the drivers seat at all anymore. She says the thing she likes about the 100 days is she is pretty sure by then I will have totally surrendered to her lead and it will be easier for her to rule in the future.
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Wife came down dressed in very short night shirt as soon as the children were asleep, tidying up, obviously bend down and making sure I got a good look at what I couldn't have at the moment...

She seems very happy with the new she decides arrangement...
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After two weeks locked up in my CB6000 I seem to be thinking less about sex and more about how to please my wife, is this normal?

My wife has been great and seems to be really enjoying my cock being locked away, she especially seems to like that she is in control and there is no set timescale etc....

Anyway she has indicated that I maybe released during the holiday if she want the use of my cock but it is to be locked up straight after.
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LockedforHer wrote:After two weeks locked up in my CB6000 I seem to be thinking less about sex and more about how to please my wife, is this normal?
Welcome to the club :)

I still think about sex, but I think more about pleasing my wife. This she likes so I will remain locked up.
I'm catching up on giving her the O's she's been denied for the past 20 years. By my calculations we should be even by the year 2032. :shock:
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locked4her55 wrote:I still think about sex, but I think more about pleasing my wife. This she likes so I will remain locked up.
I'm catching up on giving her the O's she's been denied for the past 20 years. By my calculations we should be even by the year 2032. :shock:
I never denied Miss BethK any O's (I cannot say about her prior two ex-hubs).
Though that is true, she has a lot more now. And I have a lot less. Lately since September 30, and with her toying either with the idea of a year, or maybe forever :o

Plus I notice things about her more and respond more quickly.

Lately she has been involved in a massive computer coding project, and like most innovative geniuses (geniusi?) she forgets basics like eating.

So I have been taking on the task of learning to cook and making sure she is fed properly (she needs her strength up as computer coding is heavy work).

Being free of me pawing at her also keeps her concentration high, and me quite frustrated. Works well all around.
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Anymouse wrote: Being free of me pawing at her also keeps her concentration high, and me quite frustrated. Works well all around.
Around here, I'm pawing Mrs. Edge all the time.