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[lockedbyB]

Well i am seriously ready to see "B" now. I am counting the days! (as is she to be fair we are both excited!) I feel so lucky to have met such a wonderful human being. She is gorgeous inside and out and i am truly lucky to have met such an amazing woman.
the chastity thing rocks, even though it hurts but just to be next to the girl im mad about is going to make my life better!
Obviously due to the lock up i cant stop thinking sexual things as im so frustrated but i am just generally so excited to be seeing my solemate and my owner!

[lockedbyB]

Five days now until release time. Excited.com!! I can not wait, so so excited about seeing the girl of my dreams for the first time in three months and spending a week together!

"B" told me I'm the smallest of all the guys she's been with. She has told me that she treats me a lot worse than them because they are much more manly and I can't satisfy her with intercourse like her exs. She says this really frustrates her. I always ask her if she feels bad for commenting on my size and stuff and she tells me not at all.

Should all guys with smaller ones in chastity or in general except that a real woman wants satisfying and if you can't because of your size you should expect to be used, humiliated and punished to make up for it?

[celticqueens_sub]

Dude it is not the size of the pencil... It's how you write your signature that matters..

Should all guys with smaller ones in chastity or in general except that a real woman wants satisfying and if you can't because of your size you should expect to be used, humiliated and punished to make up for it?

er.. no.. a bit of a generalisation do you not think?

[lockedbyB]

Yeah maybe a little carried away with the whole stereotype thing there oops!

[finallyhappy]

You've been surfing too many fringe sites.

[lockedbyB]

I did before joining here for sure. I did a lot of research, and generally reading to fuel a fantasy. It's different now. You see through all the bull**** on a lot of sites straight away. I like this site. It's been a really cool place to open up and share my feelings while going through this new experience.

The people who comment generally seem very level headed and it's good to ground yourself by being surrounded by that. It's certainly helped me anyway.

[Sir Chaste]

lockedbyB: As you have now been reading these Forums for some time, I know that you have come to understand that your participation in an MC lifestyle is not an end in itself, but is only one facet (while often a very frustrating one!) of a committed, loving relationship between CD wearer and KH. The goal of chastity play should be to strengthen the bond between the couple, and while Teasing and Denial are essential elements of that play, they should always be performed with an underlying love and respect for each other. It seems to me that when "B" tells you that you are "the smallest of all the guys she's been with," that her former lovers were "much more manly," and that you "can't satisfy her with intercourse," she is being unnecessarily cruel, and is obviously missing the purpose of chastity play. There may, in fact, be deeper problems in your relationship with "B" if you feel that you are being "used, humiliated and punished," "because of your size." I believe that you and "B" should have a serious discussion when she returns, in which you state that you have been hurt by her remarks about your size and her former lovers, and you request that she begin showing more respect for your feelings. No one ever deserves to be constantly belittled or put down, and if "B" honestly cares for you and about your feelings, she will change her behavior. Your relationship must first be built upon a proper foundation in order for chastity play to succeed, and only then can it become an exciting and erotic activity for both of you.

[Tom Allen]

http://www.erectionphotos.com/frames_index.htm

For those of you with hangups about size, or those of you who have never seen one outside of porn, this is an educational site that shows normal (i.e., non-porn star) penises in various states.

If personal humiliation is your kink, that's fine. But if you have doubts, or if you'rr getting tired of listening (reading) the constant cross-over of chastity with "useless dick" kinks, then this may be worth a look.

[lockedbyB]

Hey guys thank you for the posts. Always good to see different opinions and interpretations.

I must say that the personal humiliation is a kink of mine and I did tell "B" about this. She can be pretty cutting in all honesty but I really like that about her. She never lies or strays from the truth, and while I have said with intercourse I don't hit the spots her exs did I do put in a good performance. It's just not as deep as she likes.

"B" compliments me so often about anything from the way I please her, ranging from anything from sending her a little note telling her how much I miss her and the quirkie things I love about her to the naughty things I miss too. On a personal level she makes me feel so special it's amazing. Truly. Obviously I have my kinks and the way she cuts me down is breath taking sometimes too.

It's still reasonably early in our relationship and it's already gone long distance which never helps. I'm certain we will have many heart to heart chats down this road about all sorts not just with this subject. She is so worth waiting for and the chastity thing really does keep us close in a way. It's a naughty connection that I keep under my clothes infront of everyone I know as devotion to her, and the denial for me and control she has from such a distance is something she loves.

I love where this has gone, as frustrating as it can be. I'm looking forward to the road ahead. Locked up or not we will have a lot of fun because we both rock together and we are so open and honest with each other. Things are good


And I'm not tiny small I'm just shy of the alleged average, but I make up for it in other ways. It's just an easy target for "B" after her previous experiences. It's all good though. Highs and lows make it fun

[celticqueens_sub]

s'long as you're happy is all.