[Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

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365 wow! I cannot imagine what it is like. Personally I hope to never know. As for you, you have my utmost respect.

Wow! Just wow!

Hopefully she doesn’t come up short by a day or two and say let’s do it right the next time.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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CS was texting me that she went out for drinks with her friend Jodie who works for a vet. Jodie’s husband cheats and isn’t smart about hiding it. I texted back the husband should watch it. If Jodie knows how to neuter animals, he should know my fear. CS texted back Jodie is a receptionist and I replied that the husband is safe.

Her response: But YOU are not!😂😂😂😂

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Hate when I am right. CS has been saying that she would finally be coming home this weekend. It’s been three weeks. I said I’m sure something will come up to prevent her coming home.

Her mom’s physical therapist came on Monday and asked how long CS was gonna be there. Her mom said it was CS’s last week and broke out crying. Nothing like a mother’s guilt trip. Tuesday CS’s aunt, her mother’s older sister, passed away.

CS called asking me to overnight her “funeral outfits”. You know you are getting up in years when you have a dedicated “funeral outfit”. Tomorrow they drive to Pittsburg and then funeral is Friday. The Physical therapist said CS’s mom is not up for the trip but that is not stopping her mom. I’m just thinking this will set her mom back in her recovery and at very least emotionally depressed. Cannot see CS coming home this weekend.
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CS is on the way home. It’s been a month. I have changed her bed linens though no one has been in her room all month. Crème Brûlée is made and cooling. Dove chocolates on her desk and two new night shirts on the hooks in the bathroom. House has been cleaned top to bottom and the weekly grocery shopping completed. For dinner making pork ribs, baked potatoes and corn on the cob. There is a bath pillow in the tub with bath salts and candles ready to go. I wonder if she will think she was missed?

While I have actually really enjoyed my alone time, I am most looking forward to not having to clean the kitty litter every morning. Lol I really dislike house cats.
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CS made it home safely and I was greeted with a hug in the driveway before her going inside to spend twenty minutes telling the cats how much she missed them. I spent that time bringing in all her luggage. Of all the packages that came while she was gone, she handed me one saying it was my Father’s Day gift. When CS and I first started dating, I had several Hawaiian shirts which she hated and had me get rid of. So imagine my surprise when I opened the shipping bag and there is a white Hawaiian shirt with blue sketches of palm trees and Jack Russell terriers with island tattoos. It was a shirt I would not wear in public and felt bad she spent money on it.

CS laid on the couch while I carried her luggage to her room and then started making dinner grilling ribs and boiling ears of corn. After dinner she changed into her night clothes and laid on the couch watching a movie. As she was in her night shirt, I was asked to walk her dog, the Jack Russell. Didn’t matter I was wearing a shirt that said “Kept Under Lock and Key”. During her show’s intermission I was asked to get her the crème brûlée I had made. I sugared and torched it adding a blackberry for presentation. CS doesn’t eat fruit.

She asked if I had everything to make her meatloaf tomorrow cause Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday she has grandkids baseball games so I will be eating alone those days. I was wondering, other than her cleaning her cats kitty litter, why I had missed her.

Movie ended and CS was ready for bed. I got her water for the night, took down her bed. Brushed my teeth and CS asked for me to use the whitener. CS unpacked her makeup before laying down on the edge of the bed with legs up. That’s my cue to go down on her. The reason she has me use whitener is the hydro peroxide makes her tingle down there as I perform my duty. This is why I missed her.

As she says goodnight and sending me to my room, she makes scissor fingers saying “Snip, Snip”. Back to not missing her.

Day 343 without an orgasm.
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CS back after four weeks and I will be honest, after four hours I was ready for her to go back to Ohio. Maybe it’s because I have not been teased or touched in so long that there is no thrill, just a cage. But I know I have gotten a tad surely. The other night CS was commenting on how she wasn’t worried if I would have cheated while she was gone cause if I headed down that road I would be on a midnight train to Georgia and she would be keeping the keys. Before my brain engaged, my mouth said, “You make that sound like a bad thing”. Yeah, not a good thing to say but I don’t have game when it comes to picking up women and how would I even round second base wearing a cage?

She has been back two days. Took yesterday off work to go get her hair done and unpack before laying on the couch for me to finish work and make her dinner. Today she worked and then left for her daughter’s house for dinner before seeing her grandson’s baseball game. Next two days will be like today.

She has come both days after her shower for me to go down on her and bring her to an orgasm. Hoping this daily activity re-ignites a little passion. At the very least just jiggle my balls. Lol
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The only peanut butter CS will eat is JIF and it has to be creamy. No crunchy, no Skippy, no store brand. Found out that while she was gone and I got more peanut butter, I got her JIF creamy but I accidentally got the reduced fat. Jars look the same other than the words “reduced fat” on the label. Got the third degree on did I know I did this, and it’s gritty and she can’t eat it. Honestly tastes the same to me.

So after I finish work today and she goes off to her grandsons baseball game, I will run to the store and get her the correct peanut butter. Think I will leave it on the table with the paddle. Maybe a few swats will absolve me of my transgression.

I am also trying a different tactic cause if Mohammed won’t go to the mountain, bring the mountain to Mohammed. Gently pushed her against the wall for a minute or two make out session. Got a knee to the groin. After her shower she came into my office and hopped up on the bed. Went down on her bring her to an orgasm and then she kicked my balls six times before heading back to finish getting ready for the day.
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Sorry if I. Out of line here,,,, but the two of you have a unique and interesting dynamic. Good luck with the peanut butter.
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Not out of line as you are correct. It is unique. CS’s first husband was controlling through verbal abuse and in essence, he broke her. To this day if there is an event they both have to attend, her anxiety goes through the roof that she takes an edible to cope. With me she has found her voice again and vows never to be controlled. Unfortunately she has gone a little too far that “it is all about CS”. When she went through menopause, she lost her sex drive. She still enjoys sex but no desire to start intimacy. This was the reason I introduced chastity. It allows her to be in control and even though she only denies, giving her daily licking increases our intimacy. She has found she likes ballbusting and spankings. Again control issues. While I may not enjoy a knee to the balls, she needs this assertion so I don’t discourage it. And if being honest due to lack of attention to my groin, I have come to enjoy it as any attention is good attention. So if I back her into a wall and start kissing her, she enjoys it but a knee to my balls tells her she is still in control.

Having been apart for about a month has cooled her engines. While trying not to top from the bottom, leaving the paddle with the peanut butter and a I am sorry note, gives her the “in” to get back to where we were prior to her having to take care of her mom. Kind of like re-lighting the pilot light to get the oven hot.
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It’s good that you are patient and understanding about your relationship. I do like the separate beds dynamic. I tried to get Mrs. G to do this several years ago for the possibility of better sleep. I’m not so sure about the separate rooms . Although it truly makes her the queen when you have to be invited in to her presence.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)