Anyone had experience with this Steel timed lock box

[mikel2411]

Hi all
It seems my KH had a plan after all, our anniversary was on the 25 and her plan had been to allow me freedom, "briefly" per her grinning response. We had a conversation after my last post and she had informed me of her plan. I was excited because I had thought things might be heading back to normal. When I retrieved my keys I quickly removed the unit checking and thoroughly cleaning myself, and it felt really good, LOL.
After cleaning myself I couldn't help putting on a different unit and hoped for the best. Waking the next morning and realizing I was so close to completing NO-vember I changed back to the glans ring unit locking my keys up for the last few days of the month.
I informed her of my choice seeing her grin when I told her made me excited, it was her deep in thought grin. During thanksgiving her mood changed, I finally got her to tell me she was upset because it was her first holiday without her mom, basically her family separated after her death so none of them even returned her calls.
I was crushed thinking about her being so sad just trying to figure out what to do. At end of November I went to get my keys and saw it had been reset until after the first of the year, as best I could figure out in my shock.
Few days later I ask her about it and she almost started crying again forgetting she had done that with thoughts of making the new year special for us. Now I was locked again looking at the "emergency hammer" lying next to the box wondering if I could take another full month.
When X-mas lights started going up around the neighbor hood she was upset again deciding she didn't want to do anything for X-mas so once again no conversation about anything but how to make her feel better. I have set up some minimal decorations in our back yard just for us to watch when we sit outside and so far she has liked them but it's going to be a long month for both of us.
I will not be bringing up anything, just talking with her about her sadness and dealing with her grief and hoping she comes around.
At least I know now I CAN wear this unit for months at a time and knowing there is no chance of pullout or that it will not SLIP out, EVER, is in reality exactly what I have always wanted.
I am living what I had always thought chastity was supposed be, no choice, no control. Even though I had never intended on long term denial I have accepted being out of control of my freedom has become exciting in its own way and I might be starting to understand the idea of it.
Just FYI, the unit I am wearing is short, stifling erections completely with a tight glans ring with me learning that any vibrator placed on it makes the ring become painful and if left running too long or too strong will cause chafing were it encircles me and if unit left on will not let it heal becoming more painful every day, one of the lessons I learned when I had gotten accustomed to wearing it when I first got it. So even trying to use a vibrator is out of the question until have access to the keys again.
I have been toying with urethra tubes, modifying one that had come with a glans ring, removing the ring and sliding it over the cage then locking it in place, its been surprising how well its been working and when I can unlock again I will be trying out several more ideas I have. Never enough, LOL

So I hope everyone enjoys the holiday season and gets exactly what they want, even if they don't know it's what they wanted.
Mikel

[mikel2411]

Well she surprised me again, Friday came around and I found my key next to my evening drink. I looked at her sideways having not realized I had been mentioning the cage more often, not really complaining but expressing my desire to change the unit again. She had not locked ALL the keys in the box thankfully. She is still kind of in a funk but at least thoughts of us are sneaking back in. I had been playing with urethra tubes previously and started experimenting again. We still aren't back yet but getting there.
I hope everyone has a good holiday.
Mikel