[willshelockmywilly] The Get-Away that started it all

[willshelockmywilly]

I will go back and add the beginning of our journey from notes I made at some point. For now, I want to jump in where we are before I get further behind. Life is very busy for us now, and has been since the pandemic started. She works in healthcare and I in retail. That along with other family matters has meant the pandemic has been more of a force to drive us apart as a couple, rather than tucked in at home together. That being said, our relationship as a whole was in a terrible spot. We have both been battling depression and anxiety along with tremendous stress. I had brought up chastity pre-pandemic, and she didn’t say no, but we ordered a few cheap cages, had problems with fitment and falling off, and I think it really turned her off. I don’t blame her, she is very vanilla and traditional and was surely thinking “my pervert husband wants me to lock something metal on his dick now. How did I wind up in the position in my life?”. But she also didn’t get upset or mad about it, and said that if it was important to me, she would continue to try to keep an open mind. I went back and ordered a cage with better fitment, and wore it when she was gone at work some, getting familiar with is and seeing if it really fit, but she never knew it. Shortly after the holidays, or relationship seemed to be really starting to improve from our pandemic stress. She got me some really nice tickets to a show she knew I would love for my birthday in December, and the show is in February. I saw I t as huge gesture from her because it really showed me that she cared about me, and it was the first thing I felt like she had put that much effort into that was specifically for me, in a long time.

Due to some hormonal changes she has not been on birth control, which obviously complicated sex even further than a strained relationship does. She intended to go back on it at the beginning of the year, and her OBGYN appointment had to be cancelled due to COVID. She promised me that it would be rescheduled before our trip, and that became the beginning of our journey. I had become a masturbation addict and porn watcher when our 9 year relationship hit its all time low. When she made me that promise to make the get away weekend so special for me (just so happens it is the weekend before Valentine’s Day, women can’t help themselves but to be romantic ) I decided to admit to her my vulnerable secret and resolve to do my part to help our relationship. She received it better than I think you could expect any vanilla wife to. She didn’t yell, really even get mad, leave or cry. She was hurt by it, and I was ashamed of it because I knew they were hurtful things. Whether or not you agree with watching porn or not can be debated in any way you want. But if you watch it without your spouse knowing and you know they are clearly of the opinion it is wrong to watch it, that is very hurtful towards that person. I suggested that in return for the special weekend she had planned out for me, we give chastity one last try. If it worked out, we could discuss further arrangements at or after that weekend, and that if she was still indifferent towards it at that point, we would throw them away and I promised I would never mention it again.

I now have an account on this forum, I will be surprised if it is the latter. This first journey post is to give a background story leading up our start of chastity. I will add what happened in the first few weeks later from the few notes I have, it was an absolute whirlwind, and time flew by. But I want to be able to document the week leading up to the get away weekend.

T minus 7 days -

Friday - We leave in 1 week. I had a long stressful day at work today, and we were apart tonight, she works nights. We spoke over the phone twice, but I was short the first time at work, and the second time she had some left over work stuff she needed to get off her chest on her commute to work. We small talk texted over the course of the evening. She broke the news to me that her OBGYN appointment was not going to be in time for our get away. I was devastated. I had been looking forward to unprotected sex that weekend for so long now. It has been many months since we have been able to do that due to her being off of birth control and pregnancy being a concern due to other health issues; and it certainly hadn’t been helping our relationship. I felt like this was all her fault, by not insisting with her doctors office more, or not coming up with a solution sooner. I decided I wanted to quit chastity all together. I thought it wasn’t fair to me. Then I had a major perspective shift, and one I would have never had if I wouldn’t have been forced by chastity to spend less time thinking about myself, and more time thinking about her. I realized, maybe she doesn’t want this either. She didn’t ask for all these problems, she didn’t want her appointment to be cancelled, and she definitely didn’t want it to take this long to be rescheduled.

Saturday - Reflecting on my thoughts last night really made me realize how selfish I have been, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy. I felt genuinely bad about this and it depressed me quite a bit. That, combined with her work schedule meant very little time for much togetherness the start of this weekend. I did spend about 2 hours locked and gave her a manicure (she likes the SNS powder and it takes a WHILE to do; something that I have just learned since she started holding my key) on Saturday night though, while she watched a movie she choose.

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[willshelockmywilly]

Today I was back up to about a 6 on a 1-10 horniness scale. She had to work less than expected this weekend so it allowed us more time together. I was promised 1 orgasm in the week leading up to our trip. I, of course, started hoping for it today, after having recovered from feeling mad at myself. We had a nice vanilla day and got caught up on a lot of chores. Towards the end of the day, I began to ask her for it more and more, in very subtle ways. Finally I asked her point blank if I could have it today and she said “no”. So I began begging, I am honestly not sure how much I pestered her but she finally said “okay, you can have twenty strokes, but if you can’t finish by that time, that’s all you get. And you HAVE to tell me if you think you are within two strokes of cumming.” I was ecstatic!! She unlocked me and began. When twenty strokes came I was far from ready but far from ready to quit! She stopped and I begged and pleaded with her to continue. She would not at first but then slowly started back. I felt like I was getting ready to explode and told her I was going to cum. She changed pace slightly, went just a few more strokes and then stopped again. She said she was at 50 and said, “you haven’t even been able to by 50!!”. I knew I couldn’t beg for any more, she had given me more than double what she agreed upon. She lightly teased me for a moment and then began again. I was shocked to get more but I wasn’t going to complain
She continue stroking and it felt so amazing, it was the first real attention I had gotten from her since Thursday, when she had given me an orgasm. I again felt an orgasm impending and told her I was close. Then I felt as if I was about to burst and told her I was cumming. She stroked me 4 more times or so. She then grabbed my shaft and put her thumb right over the tip to try to block any emissions!!! I couldn’t believe she had done this, I had shared this technique with her recently but the woman I was married to two months ago would have never acted on it, and just kept doing the same ole thing was that she was comfortable with. Now she was using an idea I had just told her about a few days ago!!! I succumbed to my orgasm, knowing it was coming and watching it be ruined by her firm grip which was not stroking pleasurably. There was a tremendous amount of volume, most of it went past her thumb and onto my stomach. It felt amazing, it was honestly a pretty good orgasm. I had full contractions and the feeling of her hand on my shaft made it better than the ones she had been giving me with no stimulation. She gave me a moment to recover and asked me how it felt. “Honestly, if felt pretty good! I would say better than the other ones you’ve given, I would prefer this!” “Well, I guess I didn’t ruin it enough then did I?” She replied with a sly tone. Then she said “that would have hit you in the face if I hadn’t done that. It came out with some FORCE.” Holy shit it was so hot the way she said it!! It honestly was not a completely ruined orgasm, she more deflected the semen flowing out than completely blocked it. I almost told her that she could grasp the shaft much more firmly and would need to press down much firmer to stop the flow, but I did not. I have decided that she needs very little “help” keyholding at this point. She knows I am journaling here and has read my posts so far, so if she sees this on her own, it’s fair game. If she doesn’t take the time to look though, it’s her loss!! I was SO happy she decided to give it to me today. I was hoping for my longest period of lock-up/denial to be right before our trip, and if she would have waited until Tuesday like she had planned, it would have been 5 days by then. The next 5 days are going to be lonnnnnnng though! I haven’t been 5 days without an orgasm in YEARS. I have no clue how I will handle it. We shall see!

Later in the evening I was heating up food in the microwave for her. She came in and asked if it was hot. I said, I’m not sure, I put it in for 50 seconds. She replied “50 seconds isn’t always enough time to finish in.” I’m still trying to figure out what type of crash course she took to become such a hot tease so quickly.

[willshelockmywilly]

I haven’t written in a while as life has been busy for us. Just a short Thanksgiving post to get me back in the habit. My wife voluntarily decided to participate in Locktober this year. After somewhat of a summer break, it honestly came as a relief to me and I enjoyed it at first. She was very lenient at the beginning with me. Allowing me quite a few orgasms and being rather haphazard with unlocking me and not promptly locking me back up. Part of the way through the month I let her know I was up for more of a challenge if she wanted to give it. She announced before the month was over that we would be doing no nut November so not to worry about her lenience, she would double down then I’m currently on my 23 rd day of being locked and have only slept unlocked one night. I have had 1 ruined orgasm each Sunday but other than that it has been almost entirely hands off. My next orgasm is supposed to be for my birthday in December.

[willshelockmywilly]

So on November 3rd I mentioned to my wife over a text, while she was at work, that I thought I would really like to do no nut November this month. I told her I didn’t know if I had the willpower to but that I knew she wasn’t likely to have the time or energy to assist me with it. Her answer was “Well I can lock you up.”. I said “I didn’t know if you were ready for all that. I don’t know if I’M ready for all that!”. She replied “Well, get ready!”. I told her I was shaved up but that I meant mentally and she replied “you have until tonight.”. We bantered back and forth about an honor system, trust and lunch. I sent her some money for lunch. I told her that I had considered asking her to lock me up for a while, and that I had gotten the cages out and played with wearing them a few times on my own. I then admitted I thought I had not asked her because in reality I didn’t want to give up jerking off. We chatted about time and intention, and why things may haven’t worked in the past. She asked for a break in sex talk and we discussed other things for a bit. At nap time I had settled in into bed for a super nice jerk off session. I had caged myself when she mentioned it that morning though, just as a reminder of what it felt like. So I felt guilty taking it off to jerk off without her knowing. I texted “Side note: I am confused. Do I need to ask for permission to jerk off starting today/now or am I still free Willy like I have been being. I put the cage on this morning when you mentioned it for a test run, and I think it messed up my headspace! He just went down for his nap so I am trying to decide what to do.”. She clearly responded “You need to ask permission.”. I clarified whether that meant today or from here on out and she indicated it was from here on out. I asked several questions to clarify, to which she responded “You need to stay caged. No touching. Period.”. Later in the day, I begged over texts permission to unlock myself with her blessing, which she denied, eventually telling me if I kept asking I’d be punished. We had dinner plans with my family for that evening at Kate’s house. I asked her a serious, not out of bounds clarification that I had intended to take it off to go there to which she responded “No, it’s gotta stay on.”. I was SUPER shocked. In the past, she was hesitant to even allow me to wear it in circumstances where others were around, much less MAKE me. I asked three times and she NEVER allowed it. Needless to say by the time we got home I was a big ole puddle of horny mess!



She made me wear the cage to work Monday. Then it was Dr’s office, great sex but no orgasm for me, but then BJ late at night ALL happened the next day. She made me cage up almost immediately after the BJ orgasm and sleep caged. I was SHOCKED. The next day I was required to work locked.



11-5-24

I worked locked and then once I was home had received an offer on the business. It took us a long time to iron out those details and then she wanted a non sexual massage. She kept me locked for this and made me sleep locked with the key around her neck. With the spare key in my truck at the shop, it was a real mindfuck knowing I COULDN’T get myself out without having to wake her up!

11-6-24

I was locked at work all day today and had a good productive day. I have been drinking about 60 ounces of water each day which makes me feel better. I had some disappointment about the business offer. Her and I sexted some though (Hope to add details later) and it made my day better. Once home I asked to be let out and she denied me that. We had a GREAT dinner she bought us. We played with our son and then she let me out for 45 while we watched some TV as a family. She went to shower and I had been begging for a hard on or ruin and she said I could join her in the shower at a certain time. I did and she was washed up and waiting for me. She told me to rinse and wash my face which I did. Then she moved me to the side and began washing me HERSELF with HER bar of scented soap, rather than the bar I use. She said I am washing you and you are not allowed to touch your cock or balls. She gave me a super aggressive albeit long shaft cleanse and ball machine. I was hard as a fucking rock. My dick felt like it was two feet long and about to explode. It was intense as hell because she was not being gentle. Then she abruptly stopped and said wash you ass and feet and lets get out. DO NOT TOUCH. She would not let me dry them, lotion them or ANYTHING. Strictly no touch for me until I am in the cage when I am allowed to handle my balls only. She has told me she will do a cage off supervised deep clean twice weekly but that otherwise I will be only allowed to rinse myself with the cage on. We have a $200 wager to see if she holds true!

[willshelockmywilly]

After spending about 48 hours straight locked up while my wife worked two 12’s; she decided to unlock me last night at bedtime! Even though it’s a shorter duration than we have played with in the past and fractions of what many of you here are dealt with; 48 hours seemed like an eternity after over a year and a half of freedom. I’ve been jerking off at least daily, often twice, for at least a year. I hadn’t cum since the spectacular blowjob I got in Monday. She told me I am doing no nut November (except Nov 5-Dec 5 due to our schedule) in that I am not allowed to touch myself and I will have NO pleasurable orgasm. She said she also understands I have been used to daily release so that I can expect at least 2-3 ruined orgasms per week. After unlocking I begged and plead like a child for a lollipop for any type of sexual contact. I wanted to smother myself in her chest and get that big explosive release I’m so used to feeling so regularly! She got tired of me groping her and told me to stop or that I had to lock back up; but that she would massage my balls while I rubbed her back. I was proud of her for standing up for herself! Still yet, I pouted to try to get more. She responded “DO NOT POUT. If I see you pouting I will lock you STRAIGHT back up, you are lucky to be out.” I agreed and we settled in for a movie and some massaging. After only about 5 minutes I was rock hard and couldn’t keep from cumming. I told her this and she said I know, and she restrained my free hand with her free hand. She proceeded to vigorously pump me until I was so close and then BAM. She let go. NOTHING. Not even a thigh rub!!! You could have counted to 15-20 before cum starting drizzling out of my oiled up cock. I felt absolutely nothing and BEGGED for more relief. She denied me any other pleasure and told me to stop or I would sleep caged!! She held me like this for 20 minutes until all the emotions and hormones from the big ruin settled down. She told me I was sleeping uncaged but that I was not allowed to get up for anything other than to pee. In hindsight it was sooo fantastic but at the time I wanted so much more! This morning I woke up horny and unlocked and wanted to fuck her so bad. At first she said she wasn’t at all horny. I told her if she let me suck her tits for a bit she knew she would be. To my surprise she said “you’re right, go get my vib. You don’t get to go inside me or cum though.” She immediately cut off my begging with a “it is this or nothing” quip. I got her vibe and sure enough, after a few moments of suckling she was wet as a fountain. I fingered her smooth and sexy pussy while she vibed her clit. She loves to cum hard and fast. Once aroused her ideal session lasts only about 5 minutes and that’s exactly what happened this morning. In no time she was contracting hard around my fingers. I longed so bad for it to be my dick instead. Once she was done she asked to be spooned and she allowed me to dry hump her butt for about half the time it took to pleasure her. Then she said “I’m hungry and our kid needs breakfast, get up and make coffee while your calm down. Then immediately get your cage on. If you want anything tonight at all (we have a kid free date night planned) you’ll comply without comment.”. Needless to say I am writing this now in my cage after breakfast and a dog walk. About to go clean up the yard and our home at her request! Life is good.

[willshelockmywilly]

11-11-24. I was locked all day, and had been promised a good edging session at minimum Sunday night. After bedtime for the chap she allowed me to unlock for a supervised shower. Annnnnd by supervised I mean her ass stood RIGHT there, curtain open, watching my every move. I had waited to piss until I got in the shower so I could have a normal piss. As soon as I grabbed it she said “hands off”. I explained to her I was peeing and she replied “well you had better find a way to do it where you don’t have to touch it.”. She asked me to lockup after, but then reconsidered when she determined I was going straight to the bed with her. We settled in to watch the Yellowstone recap and before long she had me hard and ready. We played a friendly game of “how long will it take him to go soft”; then I was rock hard again. I realllly wanted to drag this out and was getting close, so I asked her if she wanted to check again, that I would time. She said “nah, that’s alright” and eased off a bit. In less than three minutes though I was overcome by the pleasurable stroking (she had her thumb on my frenum JUST RIGHT) I could feel an orgasm coming. She removed her hand at the last instant to make it a ruin! Ahhh, she had pumped me for as long as she could without considering it a full orgasm (something she claims I won’t get this month); so honestly it was pretty solid relief considering my current state. Man did I want that to be an hour or so tease session though!!
Afterwards, as we were cooling down, I found a small, black, hard, u shaped strand on my scrotum. She had found two the night before. She said “I wonder if they are from the cage?” To which I replied they almost had to be. I wear a cobra that is black and these strands were most definitely black. To be honest, I expected this hiccup to scare her out of relooking me. About 10 min later (WELL before the show was over) she said “he soft now?”. Not yet, I replied. She reached over and said “sure it is, good enough. Get it on, I might get sleepy.”

Who the fuck is this woman and where did she come from??!!