Chastity Forums

Tom Allen wrote: ↑Mon Jan 27, 2025 5:19 pm parts falling off

Lol. I died laughing…that would in fact, indicate an issue

I would imagine there are several ways of doing most things. I would also contend that there are but a few ways to bring chastity into a relationship. My quick story only shows how eager I was to bring Chastity into our marriage. By purchasing a device and allowing myself to build high hopes in exp...

This may be lengthy but I challenge you to get to the end. In my beginning days I kept a journal to see if my mental state really changed or not. It’s eventually what caused me to find this place. My wife never cared to read it. One day I asked her to, she only got confused by it. My wife is like y...

Also I've seen not one Woman here offer advice...all men...hmmm I did ask over in the keyholder forum. There are very few women to begin with, and the reply I got made me feel worse about it not better. I imagine these forums are mostly men, which is fine. As I mentioned to someone earlier these re...

Hello Miss. I suspect fellow keyholders are much better positioned to respond. I can only offer that I do think my wife agrees to go along with my chastity because I do not orgasm in chastity. A caged orgasm is not a good experience for me. As a result when locked I focus more on being a better par...

We don't know much about his own thoughts on how he expected this to work. Would it be possible to ask him to write up a list or something, explaining why he wants to be locked, what he expects from it, and what he expects from you? I'm sure we can help you turn that into something mutually compati...

Log. The cage isn't meant to be a tool or a way for getting sex? And you should feel under no preasure or obligation at all. The most basic principle behind this chastity lifestyle is that you no longer feel obligated in any way. Obligation sex is a couple killer and has been discussed many times i...

Thank you. That’s very helpful information. I appreciate the time you took to explain it. I struggle with the “teasing” aspect as well. Not only do I not do it well, my guy is neurodivergent and doesn’t pick up verbal cues that I think are clear as a bell. As an added bonus, I am a people pleaser to...

I am trying to navigate the chastity situation and failing. I was asked to be keyholder for my partner and we play with it off and on. I am DEEPLY uncomfortable. I thought my feelings about it would improve over time, but they have only gotten worse. We are middle-aged and have both had previous rel...

Hi. I was introduced to chastity by my fiancé who I obviously love very much. He asked me to be his keyholder and I very reluctantly agreed. I don’t get much out of this and don’t care for it. I find it annoying, difficult, and that requires a great deal of work for me, without much reward, because ...