Chastity Forums

I've been in chastity off and on through the last several years with a laissez faire attitude; i.e., I'll have it on and then if I want to take off for a couple of days, no big deal, no real commitment. After reading so many of your posts, my partner and I-decided to make a "permanent" com...

I'm technically not single, but my wife is 900 miles away because of my job. So I self-lock as a way of staying faithful to her. I've done it for so long that the cage is now part of me...but part of my life on my own. My relationship is VERY vanilla, and I broached the subject once, only to be met ...

I found on Etsy a silicon strap, and it's great. I've been wearing it with my cage for almost a year, and I've taken it off only to go through the airport scanner or once to the doctor. I shower in it, I sleep in it. Very comfortable, easy to clean. The strap, along with a 1" steel cage, have j...

I'd like to join the chorus thanks to the Forum's creators with my own note of appreciation. I came to chastity a little by accident, like many of you. I saw a cage on a sex shop site and was immediately fascinated by the concept of not having access to my penis, of not being able to cum. So I bough...

My partner and I discovered chastity cages about three months, so a bet was made. If I could wear one for 45 days, I'd get a great payoff. I had never worn one before, and the first two weeks in particular were agonizing. Then the agony turned to an intense awareness of being stimulated all the time...

Thanks to everyone who provided me their insights as to the "why" of male chastity. I've given it a lot of thought; I've reviewed other postings to this site; I've found a lot of help in Thumper's musings and Tom Arnold's writings. And I figured out why I do this. . I enjoy the eroticism o...

I have to ask this question here in a "safe space" because I'm confused by the feelings I'm having. I experimented with wearing a cage for a few weeks a while back (I wrote about this in another posting), but stopped for various reasons. Now I've been caged for almost a month in an authent...

I've been wearing a Holy Trainer nub, 40mm ring, for about three weeks--the one with the new push-button lock. However, I'm a little nervous. It's getting increasingly more difficult to unlock for cleaning. I put some WD-40 in the locking mechanism and that helped a little. I clean around the lockin...

I wear a Holy Trainer nub, 45mm ring. I have found that periodically I must remove it because the skin below my scrotum where the ring meets the balls gets red and raw. Does anyone have any suggestions about a salve or ointment or lotion that I can apply to reduce the redness and increase my long-te...

I'm okay with taking off the cage to see the doctor since it breaks the "I'm not going to expose other people to my kinks" rule that I want to live by. No one is going to see it at the dentist's office, when you're on stage speaking to a large group nor just wandering about in public. I h...