Chastity as a single person

[Holdy]

Hiya

I’m new to chastity and this forum.

Question. Is it ok to enjoy chastity as a single person ?

I mean, it’s not as if someone else is controlling me. Indeed, only I have the key to use when I like. I kinda feel it’s self serving.

I have to say though, in a bizarre sort of way I feel more in control of myself. And it feels good.

I think I’m perhaps trying to give myself permission to enjoy something that’s secret. And secrets are often tempting……??

[atxmtb]

There actually are lots of people that self lock, both with a relationship and without. For many, the act of unlocking is enough of an obstacle, that they simple won't. There's also timed lock devices and remote key holders. So really you won't find it odd to do chastity single.

[Holdy]

Ty atxmtb. Sorry. I’m new and you just provided me really useful info and…… ‘permission’. Ty again.

Now I’m going shopping….. T….I….M….

[jsmith12]

Yes, it's still good to do solo.

You can get a lock with a digital timer on it, and then still feel a loss of control: you're not getting released until those X hours/days complete.

You can also go to chaster . app, and find a remote keyholder, paid or free.

I tried that for fitness - found someone that'd keyhold until I hit fitness milestones, using withings wifi scale for evidence. I got in shape fast : ) She also decided to have more fun with it than just my fitness goals, so I lucked out with a great KH.