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I would tell young me that kinks are fine and nothing to be embarrassed about. I'd tell me to broach things with my wife and get some toys. I'd tell me that I don't always have to go on top and sex isn't an orgasm contest.
But did chastity cages even exist when I was young?

I found chastity was a thing for me when I found out chastity was a thing - about eight years ago. Talk about a sheltered life! I've gotten much more kinky since then.

Doctors will say to avoid chastity in case they get sued by someone who does it badly. Short of trying to weld the cage shut I'd say you are right.

Having much leisure and no kids around has given us the space to explore repressed kinks over the last few years (we were fortunate to be able to retire in our mid-fifties). I've talked before about how chastity and submission got off to a rocky start, but when we were working hard and parenting har...

Yes indeed. It took a while for my wife to shed the guilt of her getting the lion's share of pleasure when having caged sex. Back in my day a girlfriend who started something she didn't finish was labelled a cockteaser (not by me I hasten to add). Once She "got" that denial of orgasms, and...

Time since last full penile orgasm, approximately four and a half years.
Time since last ruin (proper ruin, not just taking one's hand away a second before spurting), three months.
Time since last anal orgasm, three weeks.

She used to cage me for long periods (multi-week, longest 5 weeks) and we found that after the first week or so I stopped being so frustrated and sort of accepted my situation. For some time now I've been caged for 4-5 days, then as I settle down She uncages me for 2-3 days, then back in. There are ...

No it isn't. I've been in chastity for years and haven't had a full penile orgasm (as opposed to a ruin or anal orgasm) for approaching four years. But I'm only caged for around 50-60% of the time. When caged we do what it says on the tin - the penis is out-of-bounds. But I can give and receive plea...

No it isn't. I've been in chastity for years and haven't had a full penile orgasm (as opposed to a ruin or anal orgasm) for approaching four years. But I'm only caged for around 50-60% of the time. When caged we do what it says on the tin - the penis is out-of-bounds. But I can give and receive plea...

A few years ago we went on holiday for a week, day 5 of which was the start of Locktober. The idea was I'd be used thoroughly before a full month of 24/7 caging. Sadly didn't happen. The key was on the bed with our packing and then it wasn't. I thought She'd packed it, but She'd knocked it to the fl...