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by Steve2059
Wed Sep 30, 2020 7:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Denial amplifying fantasies.
Replies: 5
Views: 194
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Re: Denial amplifying fantasies.

One thing I’ve noticed when being teased and denied often for days/weeks at a time, my fantasies go through the roof. Pretty much why lots of us do it. For me, pre-chasity, "enforced" chastity was itself a fantasy so I suppose I'm living the dream. Over the last few years it's stopped being an occa...
by Steve2059
Sun Sep 27, 2020 4:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dating and chastity advice
Replies: 7
Views: 256
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Re: Dating and chastity advice

Have you thought of using a kink dating site such as Fetlife? There's a lot of debate as to whether chastity is a popular or a rare kink (for obvious reasons we tend not to advertise) but my guess is that it's a bit left-field as opposed to lingerie or a bit of light bdsm, and most of the cages that...
by Steve2059
Sun Sep 27, 2020 5:55 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How odd is my immediate dive into chastity?
Replies: 2
Views: 129
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Re: How odd is my immediate dive into chastity?

Rule 1 - it's about being happy. If you are and she is, then go for it. There isn't really a rule 2. Advice time: these things develop and evolve. Try and let it; don't force things. Many of us here have tales on how badly that worked. Also, think about how your submission can work for her - how muc...
by Steve2059
Sat Sep 26, 2020 5:12 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: easiest for wife to install.
Replies: 8
Views: 302
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Re: easiest for wife to install.

You're a brave man Sir.

I love my wife dearly and She me, and She is a senior nurse so one would think She'd have a gently touch.

Every time She's tried to fit my cage it's ended in tears (literally, and once with blood). That's one area we've totally given up on.
by Steve2059
Sat Sep 26, 2020 5:05 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: So close, but always coming up short
Replies: 5
Views: 172
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Re: So close, but always coming up short

I sympathise. I used to be morbidly obese then lost a lot of weight (though being stuck in my house for months this year has undone some of that). I have the same problems over slipping out when I get what I can only describe as ultra flaccid. I'm in the UK and use a site called House of Denial for ...
by Steve2059
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:55 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Trying Micro-Chastity
Replies: 5
Views: 251
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Trying Micro-Chastity

My usual cage is this: https://www.houseofdenial.com/collections/metal-chastity-devices/products/steel-hod-s80-with-urethral-tube?variant=72885665793 The one problem is that I'm a super-shrinker, so I don't always reach the end of the 4.5cm cage. I've been reading about very short cages and wondered...
by Steve2059
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prepping for Locktober
Replies: 12
Views: 933
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Re: Prepping for Locktober

We've been trying out a new micro-chastity cage with a view to Locktober this year. I've done three days in it but suffering from the settling-in discomforts that seem to come with new devices, though the difference in length from my old favourite is only 1.5cm (3cm cage, 4.5cm total vs 4.5cm cage a...
by Steve2059
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prepping for Locktober
Replies: 12
Views: 933
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Re: Prepping for Locktober

Luv2belocked wrote: Wed Sep 23, 2020 4:42 pm My wife just caught me masterbating while she was home on her holidays
Very poor form to be caught masturbating - unless that's the secret plan of course ;)
by Steve2059
Sun Sep 20, 2020 8:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A different kind of Locktober
Replies: 2
Views: 403
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A different kind of Locktober

Here in the UK the Government tells us that Covid-19 is on the rise and restrictions are coming into force, and that in order to prevent a ruined Xmas for many families, a lockdown might happen ahead of this in October.

Guess what someone said they might call it?

:lol: :lol: :lol:
by Steve2059
Mon Sep 14, 2020 7:03 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Locked or just disciplined— what’s the difference?
Replies: 10
Views: 542
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Re: Locked or just disciplined— what’s the difference?

I handed my wife control of my orgasms and my genitals over three years ago. At the time I was serious but She thought the whole thing would blow over after I grew bored. She has, however, grown to like the control and tells me She wouldn't go back now. My chastity is both caged and uncaged at Her w...