Chastity and retirement

[Chastityrules2017]

Hello folks.
I'm 57 and I started wondering if playing chastity games in your 50s and beyond has become easier assuming your children are out of the house etc.
Has chastity perhaps rekindled the passion of the younger years?
I am divorced but have found a lady that is open to play chastity games with me.
I understand that for some of you chastity is not a game it all but for me short term chastity it's a pretty sweet game. I simply like to be horny and frustrated. So share if you will your experience. And feel free if you're younger also, I want to hear from anyone but older couples may have a unique experience regarding chastity.
Thanks for taking the time to read this post.

[slave d]

Worked for us but we are still married (50 years this year) so a little difference there. We started 10 years ago so a few years before retirement but in a lot of ways I think it was pretty much a marriage saver because it moved the power centre from male to female and the sexual power the same way. In our case I went (over some time) from a lot of orgasms to none and MsM went from next to none to many in an average week ! So the big thing overall was the concentration on MsM in all areas and that changed our dynamics completely.

MsM’s ld

[ARK]

I am in similar situation. Still working but kids are mostly out of the house. Still in the beginning stages of chastity play. Wife is still not thrilled with the idea. She starting to see some of the benefits of chastity. Hoping one day she will accept it.

Words of advice from a very wise person, Michelle “Communication”

[Steve2059]

Having much leisure and no kids around has given us the space to explore repressed kinks over the last few years (we were fortunate to be able to retire in our mid-fifties).

I've talked before about how chastity and submission got off to a rocky start, but when we were working hard and parenting hard we were lucky to have sex, never mind talk and communicate about it. Fast forward to now and we're both comfortable in our natures - She in charge, me subbing and feminised. We're now in an FLR and She's never been happier and more content. Me neither.

I write this before going to my ironing chores. She loves dice challenges where I have to think of the challenges and She throws the dice. This month we're doing Just Giving July. I'm locked all month (unusually) and She throws the dice daily. Different numbers mean I do as commanded (which will be oral) but no reciprocation, a double means I get pegged. Six days in and no double yet.

[TwistedMister]

Never had any kids that lived, so that hasn't been an issue for us. Forced into early retirement by Covid, and wife working at home now means there may be more time for 'fun'...depending on how long it takes for the Mrs. to get her head screwed back on straight.

[Chiefbig1]

Although my wife and I have been dabbling in alternative lifestyles, BDSM and hot wife scenes, we've just begun my chastity journey. We're both retired and our kids are grown and on their own. As far as rekindling passion like in our earlier days, there is a new sense of adventure and excitement which has contributed to both of our heightened pleasures. And this cage wearing has developed a unique sense of confidence in our marriage. This past holiday had many of our friends over, and I can tell which ones she has confided our new game to. The grins and new ways they check me out, looking for any indication of my cage bulge really excites me. My wife's willingness to finally lock me up has me resigned to the fact that this is leading up to me being her cuckold. And as they say, more shall be revealed...

[Chastityrules2017]

Thank you so much to everyone that answered. Very exciting to read all of your experiences. I hope more people share. Thank you so much again.

[Tongue+groove]

Been in chastity for 6 months in 2 days. Been retired for 2 years. She prefers me caged, says I am more productive. I will admit I am busier retired than when I worked. As for having kids around, we had the 2 grandkids for 5 days sometime back. Mrs. Groove was quite reserved with comments and feeling me up. Once they went home though, look out. She got what she wanted and more. Good thing no kids in the house with those noises.

So, in short, retirement has its benefits.

[BritCanUsa]

Hey @Chastityrules2017

Don't think that your chastity games is any less than the rest of us......we all got into this for the same reason......we get something positive out of it (maybe just in different ways)

For us it's like @sub d said....chastity was a marriage saver. We'd hit a wall and what with life...kids....work pressures and a muscle condition of my wife we simply could not connect

Although we'd ventured down the road before understanding how all the pressures were off by being caged saved us
It's amazing how we can mess things up sometimes by trying to be kind to our loved ones rather than being honest and communicative

We are in such a great place and in large part because of chastity

Enjoy yourselves !