Do you like to be spanked

[Atone]

Last night while I was receiving a caning from my wife she asked me how many men like to be spanked. I figured what better way to get a statistically significant scientific result than to ask my friends here.

So men, do you like to be spanked (or any form of CP)?

[Atone]

so far this is about what I expected. Thank you for verifying that I am in fact "normal" and I can tell my wife that yes all men like to be spanked.

-A

[Tom Allen]

so far this is about what I expected. Thank you for verifying that I am in fact "normal" and I can tell my wife that yes all men like to be spanked.

-A

Or you can tell her that a small subset of men, who are self-identified kinky men, like to be spanked.

/pedantic

[fonetik2003]

My Goddess actually gives me what we call "maintenance spankings" every other day. It's actually fascinating me because when she started doing this, she no longer likes her slut (me) to pleasure her on a regular basis. Actually, it amuses her when I beg to please her pussy!

[Atone]

Or you can tell her that a small subset of men, who are self-identified kinky men, like to be spanked.

/pedantic

yeah, but that just wouldn't carry the same authority.

At the end of the day what she really wants to know is why *I* like to be spanked.

-A

[Tom Allen]

At the end of the day what she really wants to know is why *I* like to be spanked.

[Celtic Queen]

Atone, to muddy cloudy waters further..

My hub does not like to be spanked per se but he does like to be made to feel submissive and controlled. Spanking does that for him.

[Atone]

Atone, to muddy cloudy waters further..

My hub does not like to be spanked per se but he does like to be made to feel submissive and controlled. Spanking does that for him.

That doesn't muddy the waters for me, at least not any more than they already are. I have spent a fair amount of time with my therapist working through some of these feelings. Of course that usually just brings up even more feelings that I didn't even know I had. We take this fairly slow because I think it challenges my therapist almost as much as it challenges me.

Another thing that muddys the water is that I like two different kinds of spankings. I like the more erotic, slow buildup, sexual spankings. I also like very strict discipline (judicial style) canings. The first I enjoy for the activity itself. The latter I enjoy for the anticipation before hand and the submissive and controlled feeling during and especially after.

-A

[fonetik2003]

Indeed! I tease my Goddess at times for being adorable and being short, and sometimes she'll take that aggression out on me when she spanks me! It really is a sight to behold! Her standing over me in her diminutive stature and screaming, "I am not CUTE! I am not ADORABLE! I am not PRECIOUS! I am not SHORT! And I am not A MIDGET!" Meanwhile, she has to stop beating me in just a short period because I lose it and just start laughing my ass off and fall over from my all fours position! Anyway, me teasing her occasionally continues to work for us (for the most part), so I don't think I'll stop doing it. Even if it does get the shit beat out of me from time to time...

[kpb57]

Another thing that muddys the water is that I like two different kinds of spankings. I like the more erotic, slow buildup, sexual spankings. I also like very strict discipline (judicial style) canings.

I'll vote yes because of the first type. In that case, the "yes" is also true for my wife. Just as "no" to the second type is also true for both of us.

K