Three months of chemical aided chastity/celibacy today!

[wettie]

So we debated that what I'm really doing is probably not chastity and more celibacy, but either way, some of you may find this interesting. I reached 3 months today of no sex, no masturbation. This is BY FAR the longest I've ever gone in my adult life. To celebrate I'm off to order myself a CB6000s to get me through the next 318 days!

It's detailed on a blog at http://chemicalchastity.wordpress.com/ if anyone is interested.

[fuzzydunlop]

Has the fact that your wife has been off of birth control changed anything for her on desire?

[wettie]

Nope

[fuzzydunlop]

I read your blog, and it is interesting. Thanks for sharing. I think of what you are going through as chastity rather than celibacy, but you seem to be doing it primarily for non-kink reasons (not seeking to turnover control, not seeking tease and denial, etc.). Any time I have had success with prolonged orgasm dieting, it has been because a lot of non-kink motivations have been mixed in. It also sounds like although your sex life may not be what you would like, it is not dead, e.g., experiencing the joys of rolling around with a naked woman is not celibacy, at least in my mind. You might benefit from looking at some resources (there is a lot of Eastern thought out there) on trying to turn sexual energy into something else (transmutation), rather than acting on it (having an orgasm), or repressing or eliminating it. Keep your chin up and keep looking for ways to bond with your wife inside and outside the bedroom, even if those activities might seem rated-G or PG---there are a lot of couples who have less to work with than that. The link below was an inspiration to me:

http://www.yogitimes.com/los_angeles/ar ... _this.html