Am I Experiencing FOMO?

[EvelynOtter]

I've been locked for 70 days now and have been loving it, but something I've noticed lately is that whenever my partner gets to finish or gets to jack off without me, I get a sad, sometimes really sad and want to stop completely, take off the cage and join him. This has yet to happen but I feel like I've gotten close. But I love being locked at the same time and enjoy waiting until it's my turn. How do you all locked peeps deal and handle these feelings if you also experience them? Or ever had experienced them. I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts for this newbie.

Thanks!

[Chosen_Jackal]

I know exactly how you feel. I randomly get hit with thoughts of "what the hell am I doing?!!"

It’s natural I think. You crave release. Orgasms are good for a reason and seeing your partner have one is surely going to make you want one even more.
For me though, it’s still more rewarding to be locked and only be allowed release when my partner decides so, so I’ve managed to stay the course for now.

[EvelynOtter]

I know exactly how you feel. I randomly get hit with thoughts of "what the hell am I doing?!!"

It’s natural I think. You crave release. Orgasms are good for a reason and seeing your partner have one is surely going to make you want one even more.
For me though, it’s still more rewarding to be locked and only be allowed release when my partner decides so, so I’ve managed to stay the course for now.

I agree, I find it to be more rewarding too. I guess its just some feelings I need to get use to lol thanks for your comment!

[Chosen_Jackal]

I don’t have experience with practicing chastity in a same sex couple, but I imagine seeing your partner doing the exact thing you yearn for might heighten the feeling of frustration and denial even further.

[EvelynOtter]

It very much does! And it’s something that I love but also frustrates me so lol

[denied_one]

It's the double edge sword of denial

It's fun...sometimes it sucks

[Usuallylost]

We are relatively new to chastity and have only been experimenting since last summer off and on. However, since Valentine's Day, wife has really gone down the rabbit hole with this. I don't think it matters which type of relationship you are in, watching your partner masturbate and have an orgasm while you remain caged is extremely intense. I think more experienced couples may have found this easier to deal with over time, but I don't see how it can ever not be so intense. Even more so if your partner is talking and teasing. I am not sure I consider that I am missing out as much as I endure as I see the sparkle in her eyes as she continues to tease and deny me knowing the control she has acquired recently.