Strap on mind games

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Juss4you
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Strap on mind games

Post by Juss4you »

So we've not been playing with chastity for very long, and each session is lucky to last 24 hours.. or more likely 12 hours, but we have been having fun exploring all the different aspects of chastity and how we can add it to our sex lives.

So while browsing a popular porn site, we stumbled across a video where a guy came just by having a strapon jacked off by his partner. Much to my surprise, my partner thought this was a great idea!

I think we both thought it'd just be funny honestly, and sometimes when you can both have a laugh its just as sexy as a heated moment. At this point I'd been locked up for 12 hours so was already getting a bit wound up. I put the harness on over my cage and we had a bit of a laugh at how comical it looked with this strapon poking up straight! I leant back and my wife proceeded to lube up my 'cock' and start stroking it.

Wow!

I couldn't feel it as such, but it was quite the mind game. I really felt like I could cum like this and I was extremely surprised.

Has anyone else tried this? Does this 'kink' have a name i could use for further research?
sam6221941
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Re: Strap on mind games

Post by sam6221941 »

Sounds like Ghost Penis. There is a sub reddit for this.
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Re: Strap on mind games

Post by Tom Allen »

Wearing a strapon for your partner is sometimes known as "foxing," and the feeling of sexual sensitivity is sometimes called "ghost penis."

It partly because your mind plays tricks on your body, and partly because sexual excitement cross circuits how you feel sensations. The slight movement, pressure, and friction on the dildo transfers into the base, your groin picks it up, and your brain interprets it as sexual activity.

I have been locked up "permanently" for years, and my only orgasms are by foxing (when my wife allows it). They can be very intense.
Juss4you
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Re: Strap on mind games

Post by Juss4you »

This is a very good description Tom 👌 we tried it again after I had cum from PIV and although the feeling was not as strong, it still had similar effects.

I reckon it won't take long till I can cum from this.. looking forward to experiencing that!

Also not surprised there's a sub reddit haha. I'll have to have a look