Attributes for a chaste lifestyle?

[Mr Pickle]

I am a people pleaser.
When asked if I "will do this for me". I get something from doing it. Happy on the inside.
"I suggest you do this".
Same. I do it. It makes me feel better about myself having done so.

Maybe this is why I put myself in positions where this can happen.
Offer to be helpful, mentor people or just be there, in the firing line hoping to be asked?

Sometimes I want to offer help, or to do something, but wait for an invite. Usually where I'd more likley embarrass myself by asking.

This wanting or needing to be helpful, give a service etc. is likey one of the parts of myself that helps me enjoy and fit into this chastity lifestyle.

I like being asked, required, requested and guided.
I suppose it's another form of attention.

Also.
I tried working for a company once. I didn't like it. Being told what to do by too many people, when I was better trained and could do it better my own way made me feel resentful.

So I started my own company, a few in fact, and haven't been told what to do since. Except of course where a key is involved.
Otherwise I'm always the boss.

I do wonder if the fact that 'I don't take orders' is also something that makes being locked so good for me?
Because I have to do as I'm told. There isn't even any hesitation.
Key = Obey
But also.
The right kind of person = Comply.

There have been some instances recently where I have been told to do something, or simply been given permision, or just a suggestion. It could be as simple as "You can go home now".
And It just seems right to do that. To comply.

These suggestions, orders, telling or recommendations are not just easy to follow, they are a pleasure to follow and they result in feeling rewarded in much the same way as helping.

They make my day, or week or few weeks.

I'm also a mischievous joker, drunk on life and enjoy a bit of danger, base jumping, paragliding, rollerblading, knitting? OK. Maybe not knitting.
And of course I'm a hopeless romantic.

I just wonder what other personal attributes come into play that help with this lifestyle?

[Spaceman]

I like to be in control of what happening in my life, in fact i don't like uncertainty. Strangely what this means is that to have voluntarily and irrevocably handed control to someone, albeit somone I love and who loves me, is a huge step,,. I have actually found that to be controlled, to be ordered about and to be submissive and punished for failing is a wondeful turn on.
Which is lucky as my wife's discovered she not only likes to be dominant but she also likes inflicting punishments on me.