90 days?

Shepherdsflock · Post by **Shepherdsflock** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 9:46 am

I've seen comments on here that suggest that 90 days is kind of a magic number where psychological changes begin to happen. Is this true? The longest I have gone without an orgasm is about a month. I'm curious how things change as you start going longer. I would like to try for 90 days.

LOCKED HUSBAND · Post by **LOCKED HUSBAND** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:32 am

I have been 16 months with only 6 ruined orgasms , it has been great . I am extremely horny constantly and love the emotional aspect of it . Presently we are looking at my only being milked in the future in hopes there will be less chance of a full orgasm .
I would say go for it and enjoy . there is way more emotion in the desire than in the orgasm itself . At least for me anyway .

glove · Post by **glove** » Thu Mar 10, 2016 8:45 am

Shepherdsflock wrote:I've seen comments on here that suggest that 90 days is kind of a magic number where psychological changes begin to happen. Is this true? The longest I have gone without an orgasm is about a month. I'm curious how things change as you start going longer. I would like to try for 90 days.

I have no had an orgasm for 40 days, and have been locked up for 32 days without an erection I read on this forum that I should like this, but I am having a hard time with it. She wants me to stay in because she want to control my erections, well its working, time will tell she said maybe an erection after 50 days.
I don't want to try for 90 days, but I might not have a choice

Post by **TwistedMister** » Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:47 am

I don't think the length of time is the same for everyone, or even necessarily the same each time for the same person.

Caged55 · Post by **Caged55** » Fri Mar 11, 2016 1:48 pm

At this stage, 21/2 months into my orgasm-free year, I must admit, I do miss it from time to time especially during/after PIV - but I'm tending to feel that orgasms are over-rated, the feeling of constant horniness and wanting to please your KH, and the huge improvement not having to deal with the post-orgasm Blues seems to be worth it - 90 days seems long, so does 365 days - but it's a worthwhile experiment (at least for now)... And in a way a sense of achievement.... My question though is, if you made 90, why not 120 etc, in the end, do you even still want to orgasm?

Shepherdsflock · Post by **Shepherdsflock** » Fri Mar 11, 2016 2:03 pm

Caged55 wrote:At this stage, 21/2 months into my orgasm-free year, I must admit, I do miss it from time to time especially during/after PIV - but I'm tending to feel that orgasms are over-rated, the feeling of constant horniness and wanting to please your KH, and the huge improvement not having to deal with the post-orgasm Blues seems to be worth it - 90 days seems long, so does 365 days - but it's a worthwhile experiment (at least for now)... And in a way a sense of achievement.... My question though is, if you made 90, why not 120 etc, in the end, do you even still want to orgasm?

Actually, after I wrote this, my wife and I decided that I'm done using my penis for anything. The only orgasms I will be enjoying from now on are hers. I've always liked hers better than mine anyway, so I won't miss mine that much.

VinnyDee · Post by **VinnyDee** » Fri Mar 11, 2016 4:08 pm

Last year 3-4 months were the norm. My wife has been extending my orgasm denial period slowly but surely for the last 3 years. This is our 4th year and my wife wants to expand my denial even longer this year and is on track for a 5 month denial period. I think next Tuesday is the end of month two of no orgasm and no problem yet.

We approach orgasm denial as something we do together. I have a safe word that I can use to pause our sex play and discuss it. Just knowing I have a way out makes it easier to endure. We also take a break for a rew weeks once a year, just to enjoy peeing standing up again.,

For us it is easier to go long term because of our advanced age, low libidos, ED and current sexual preference of my wife. For us chasity allows both of us to enjoy our sex life again. Maybe not in the traditional sense but enjoyable nonetheless.

If you first get used to a time period before going longer, over time you can get used to it. You learn to deal with the surges of orgasm need. You get used to not having frequent orgasms. At least I did.

braddogg4345 · Post by **braddogg4345** » Mon Mar 14, 2016 9:06 pm

I have had 2 orgasms since being initially locked up. The first was after 2 weeks. It was nice, but eh.... The second I had was after 2 months, and it was the best orgasm I had ever had! I think my key holder is going to push beyond 2 months this time.
As for the time locked in chastity, I don't really go through the mental change where I want to serve her more by time without an orgasm. Rather I seem to respond to the amount of teasing I get from my key holder. Right now, she has been going back to work nights, so I have not had much teasing at all. Therefore I have not been all that horny. She gives me chores and tasks to do, but I am not very eager to do them. I still do them to avoid punishment, but I am not nearly as eager as I was when I was getting teased on a daily basis. I am not allowed to ask to be taken out of chastity for reasons other than hygiene, but I am going to try to hint that I need more teasing. I'm sure that will get me back into my horny, subservient mindset.

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