A Different Dynamic

[Petjude]

Every one has their own reasons for being into chastity devices and the wearing of them. I would say that we are into the use of cages for all the wrong reasons! No not the wrong reasons, they are our reasons and would be considered to be vastly different to what most people think of as the norm. We are not into their use for denial, chastity etc.
We are a mature couple living a full time Master/slave, M/f relationship and have been for 10+ years now. As part of our ongoing M/s relationship, we sit down at least every 3 months as just Mr & Mrs not M/s and discuss our relationship in detail. We have found this free open frank discussion has helped us to grow and develop our M/s relationship to the fantastic relationship we have today.
It was during one of these chats last year, it came to light that we both had considerable interest in male chastity devices. The look of a caged penis and the erotic thought of going out and about caged in public. After considerable research on the subject and devices we finally dived in and purchased a couple of devices about 3 months ago. With all the usual teething problems. Ring size, fitting etc, but we have finally sorted everything now. A very good, comfortable fit.
Now that we have started using and wearing a cage, we have found it has added yet another dynamic to our M/s relationship. Which we both find very erotic.

[VinnyDee]

We too are a mature couple who got into chastity play as a result of our teasing and denial play. Wearing my device makes me feel hornier than without it. Plus it is enough of a speed bump to prevent me from masturbating. While you have a M/s dynamic, we have a T&D one. We do play S&M and D/s games in bed. Outside the bedroom we slip in and out of our D/s roles as the mood strikes us. I can be paddled until my butt is a mass or bruises one day and having my wife take care of my needs the next day.

I went through hell to find a comfortable chastity cage and only found it when I had one custom made. Now I wear it as easily as I do my wedding ring. I am very used to it and do not feel right when I do not wear it. My wife no longer feels guilty or sorry for me, when she denies me orgasms. She knows I can take it and enjoy it and it allows her to give herself orgasms her favorite way, her collection of vibrators who each have a name.