And what's the median you've gone between them?
My wife, while discussing that she didn't want the next time out to be too soon, asked what's the longest anyone has gone between orgasms (I have a feeling I'm looking at longer spells between releases). So... what is it for each of you?
As for me, first time out was after 12 days and it's looking like the 2nd time out will be after 3+ weeks. Exquisite beautiful torture.
What's the longest you've gone between orgasms
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Re: What's the longest you've gone between orgasms
34 days is the longest. We wanted to go for six weeks until my 1st anniversary under her orgasm control, but she needed to travel away over that time period, and she didn't want me to be sad. She really is sweet. I went another 12 days after that explosive event.
I don't know my median, but my journal tells me my mean time between orgasms is one every 4 days since December 12, 2013. I was really surprised by how generous she's been. Two a week sounds like a lot, especially when you read these forums, but I'm always wanting more. She's doing more ruined and minimized orgasms lately.
We have no schedule, so it's up to her.
Yes, that 2-3 week mark feels amazing. I didn't want to stop!
I don't know my median, but my journal tells me my mean time between orgasms is one every 4 days since December 12, 2013. I was really surprised by how generous she's been. Two a week sounds like a lot, especially when you read these forums, but I'm always wanting more. She's doing more ruined and minimized orgasms lately.

We have no schedule, so it's up to her.
Yes, that 2-3 week mark feels amazing. I didn't want to stop!
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If long lockups without release intimidate you, this is probably the wrong place to ask. Some of the guys on here have gone very, very long.
I was averaging 3-4 weeks, then we had a stretch of a few weeks where it was twice per week. We're going to monthly releases now. I was crabby and moody as all get out in that little span of frequent orgasms. After a week of lockup I'm already doing much better.
I was averaging 3-4 weeks, then we had a stretch of a few weeks where it was twice per week. We're going to monthly releases now. I was crabby and moody as all get out in that little span of frequent orgasms. After a week of lockup I'm already doing much better.
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Longest - Nearly 3 months, 86 days without orgasm... whilst she used to allow me PIV orgasms when she feels I deserve one, it used to be monthly, but she feels that if she is able to milk me (we have not gotten it right yet), I will see a drastic reduction in orgasms to 2-3 per year, i.e one every 3-4 months, .... when I take her on romantic gettaways or something deserving my release
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Re: What's the longest you've gone between orgasms
oh wow - she is good!!!I will see a drastic reduction in orgasms to 2-3 per year, i.e one every 3-4 months, .... when I take her on romantic gettaways or something deserving my release
How does that make you feel? Would you want it more frequently or are you happy with that frequency?
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4 orgasmns last year, 2 this year, so in average 3 per year. longest time without 7months, 5 days
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Longest was 26 but I think there were 2-4 ruined ones in that time. Longest with absolutely no pressure release was 16 days I believe. Currently on day 14 of a streak now. Her bday is next week and then xmas so not sure which milestone she will choose to end it if any. Xmas eve would be my longest streak ever. And we probably won't see each other on xmas so I'm guessing she will give me a mind blowing orgasm next weekend and maybe a ruined one this weekend.
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Actually I am getting used to not having orgasms, sure I am horny as hell, and I would love to orgasm, but keeping her happy, and seeing she is completely into chastity and its effects is reward on its own, plus having to "EARN" an orgasm puts a spin on it, especially as she wants it linked to romatic gettaways which helps, but not guarantees release and hopefully an orgasm. Her goal is limiting me to 2-3, and she usually gets what she wants.... maybe more romatic weekend trips will sway her generositycycling2work wrote:oh wow - she is good!!!I will see a drastic reduction in orgasms to 2-3 per year, i.e one every 3-4 months, .... when I take her on romantic gettaways or something deserving my release
How does that make you feel? Would you want it more frequently or are you happy with that frequency?

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Exactly how I feel. This is more about her but I have to admit that I enjoy being the side effect of her happiness.Caged55 wrote: Actually I am getting used to not having orgasms, sure I am horny as hell, and I would love to orgasm, but keeping her happy, and seeing she is completely into chastity and its effects is reward on its own,
Used to average 3-4 a year a couple of years ago the went to permanent orgasm denial until a break a few months back due to family issues. Loved every minute of permanent denial. Plenty of teasing and edging etc. just no orgasms. Ridiculously horny all the time.
Just got back into it a couple of weeks ago and was told not to expect an orgasm until at least next Labor Day. Hell of a new start. Don't know why Labor Day but she did say "at least" so I'm sure it will likely go back to permanent again when that day arrives. Knowing her, she will make me beg for it and I know I will.
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I knew I'd hold down the other end of this survey. 
How often do you men in long term chastity ejaculate? And How: Milkings or ruined orgasm?
Someday I hope to experience orgasm denial longer than one month. I was head over heels for my wife and didn't want to stop.

How often do you men in long term chastity ejaculate? And How: Milkings or ruined orgasm?
Someday I hope to experience orgasm denial longer than one month. I was head over heels for my wife and didn't want to stop.