Let the punishment fit the crime

[AdoringHerAlways]

Looking for more punishment ideas. Since I enjoy being denied wouldn't the opposite of that be: being made to masturbate in front of her immediately with no teasing or build up? I've read some people just add more time without release, but if we crave captivity that doesn't seem to fit. I think we'd also like to try spanking but we'd have to wait until we are alone in the house which is not that often. Any other thoughts, ideas, or current things you do would be appreciated.

[carolina cyclist]

I like the idea of have to masturbate in front of my wife...since I have hidden it from her for years. If she were to make me masturbate in front of her...it would be completely embarrassing and definitely seem like punishment. However, as with all things in our sex life...MrsL makes the final decision.

[AdoringHerAlways]

Yes, the few times I've done it in front of her definitely seemed weird, but for me the punishment would lie in the fact that I'd cum and have to start over with the build up again. Another thought I had was to be made to watch her masturbate without "helping" or being able to touch myself.

[TwistedMister]

There are various products for arthritis and muscle aches which, if slathered on ones cock can produce an interesting effect. There are differences in the intensity, depending on the brand. The best (worst) one I've found is called 'Heet!'- I have a fairly high pain tolerance but this stuff can get past it. They are all even worse if slathered on ones balls as well. The intensity (pain) can be further increased with hot water or a hair dryer.

Warning- in some cases, trying to wash it off only makes it worse. And, sometimes the effect can last for days, despite repeated washing. Tread carefully with this, experiment with small amounts/small spots at first to see how much a particular product affects you, and there can be some delay between application and full effect.

As a punishment, the right product, appropriately applied, can produce extreme pain without the Mrs. having to worry about damaging the goods. It's easy for her to apply, and doesn't require a great deal of effort. For those that have a problem delivering corporal punishment, this is an alternative that can provide a good lesson.

[LAXJockLocked]

Firstly, being uncut, and secondly, having been freshly shaved smooth during a bondage and discipline session a year or so ago, when I first started exploring the idea of not just being tied up and punished / disciplined and worked over, etc., but began to get into orgasm control, especially teasing and denial, a few times I experienced this, and it's extremely painful, to the point where I'll admit to crying or at least getting teared up like a punk, it's a really really really intense burning, and if you're being stimulated, it gets worse. It doesn't have any quick remedy, and also if say a towel or cotton sock is put over it after the creme, it's just made even worse. The first and worst time it happened I remember extremely clearly, one guy who was into bondage and having me over would do a thing that we'd do as sort of a challenge / scenario would be for me to obey and not cum unless he said OK, and I'd have to ask, and obviously wouldn't get permission, but ultimately if a dude wants to make you shoot a load, especially a college dude, willpower won't get a win ultimately. My punishment was, as suggested above, being jerked and having my glans and head polished and rubbed / teased with icy hot or bengay, whichever, extra strength, which I thought at first was a minty lube to help me have repeated orgasms, thinking I was going to be milked, as I understood it. Unknowingly (naive and blindfolded...despite being familiar with the minty smell from using it (bengay /icyhot / tigerbalm) from sports for muscle aches, etc. It took a minute or two before I put it together when the burning started and he concentrated on working a good amount to use as lube and also on the head. If you just squirt it on and try to go about the day though, and aren't having it done with either common sense and care, or having it done to you buy someone who has either experienced or researched it -- especially if you're uncut like I am -- it can actually cause chemical burns. Fortunately I've not had that happen.

[notbeinfringed85]

Represent, my uncut brother!!! I once tried Oragel as a numbing agent, which burnt like hell on my protected glans. The cut guys just don't realize how sensitive it can be. If you really want a burn, try Biofreeze. It makes icyhot look like damn vanilla cake icing.

[sissyrandi]

We generally try to stay away from the Icy Hot-type cremes; as has been stated, they can leave some serious burns that can lead to embarrassing doctor visits. Two things we have found very effective are the old (lots of fun) Violet Wands from the twenties and thirties - they have lots of attachments and the voltage settings can be adjusted quite a bit.

Another thing we discovered quite by accident. I generally keep things pretty well shaved, as does she, but the fella's can tend to get fuzzy pretty quickly if the world gets rather hectic and that maintenance is neglected for a few week or so. If there's anything there, what will really get your attention is being bound and having M'lady get everything slick as glass with a Braun Epilator - DEAR LAWD! The last thing you want is to have the legs in a spreader bar and see her coming out of the bathroom with that thing!

[greecemonkey]

Hi everyone. Dirst posting from a CF newbie.

I don't have a device to wear yet - still looking for the right one - but wifey and I practice orgasm denial maily by her only stimulating my bits up to a point and using the good old squeeze technique if things go a bit far.

We are into the punishment thing as well, with her imagination and enthusiasm getting the better of us both on regular occasions.

When she thinks I deserve it, she does what she calls her 'workout routine', which basically entails me spreading the legs and her enjoying a spot of ball busting. She's getting stronger and more accurate, I can tell you!

She also has a set of those small wire brushes that you buy in packs of 3. After a few days of continuous use with those, the little fellow is too painful to touch and even wearing clothing is very interesting. Of course, these things can break the skin and she then rubs a handful of salt in, which certainly makes the old eyes water.

She's always on the lookout for interesting uses for household appliances too, and I can elaborate if anyone is interested.