Chastity Plus

[Len51]

I am 2.5 months without an orgasm with no end in sight. Today when we had sex, there was a bra, panties and rubber gloves on my night table. She told me to put it on, including the gloves. She then put wrist cuffs on me and latched them together. She had me bend over, pulled down my panties and used her cane on me. It hurt, hurt a lot.

We talked because the bra and gloves in bed were new. My wife told me no more sexually touching her outside of the bedroom or seeing her naked. In bed I am to wear rubber surgical gloves. She said she bought two boxes. Her idea is that since I am used to being deprived of an orgasm, she needs something else to deprive me of. I am to wear the gloves during sex from now on. No touching bare flesh anymore.

After,I get used to that she wants me to wear a blindfold. No seeing and no feeling is her stated goal. She said that she is extending the meaning of chastity to include depriving me of all sexual pleasure. From now on,no more scheduled teasing sex nights. She will decide when we have sex. The plan is to get me to the point of total focus on only her pleasure. The edging will eventually stop and truly sex will be all about her. She has some intriguing ideas about our little experiment.

She wants to use nipple clips to take move my focus to the pain in my nipples and nothing else. My small Jailbird will arrive next week and deprive me of any erection. Her attack is on two fronts. There is the sexual deprivation and attacking my male ego. Panties and a bra is now daily wear. She bought two new ones from a store that makes lacy bras for men. She knows how embarrassed I feel when told to wear females underwear. Every other attempt has ended with me going back to my male undies. What is different this time is that she will spot check. If I cheat, she will use the cane and I do fear the cane. It produces a stinging pain unlike,the paddles and floggers I had grown used to.

She edged me for an hour telling me that it will be much less frequent in the future. I have posted that my wife is bisexual and has not allowed intercourse for a few decades. She truly has no need for my penis but likes my presence and fondling. She also surprised me by telling me she misses her girlfriend and was thinking of flying her in for a week of fun. My wife wants another women in bed with us but not a stranger. It all happened so fast. She says she loves the power she has over me sexually. She thinks that by depriving me of seeing and feeling that it would make me aroused to just touch her skin. She said that when I can get an erection by just seeing her naked, it means she has accomplished her goal.

It has been two hours since we had sex. Not being able to feel her skin has left me feeling that I need to touch her with my bare hands. I never had sex without feeling her. I a very tactile so this is a strange feeling for me. My butt is sore but I no longer feel the bra. I got used to it. I got very hard for her tonight. I do want o feel what it is like to completely forgo any sexual pleasure of my own and to take all my pleasure for hers. I am not happy about not being able to sexually touch her outside of the bedroom. I do that a lot and she feels it is excessive so no more of that.

I am happy that she once again wants another women in bed with us. She has always cum faster with females than with me. Plus she does not place any limits in me and the other female. I used to have one on one sex with her last girlfriend. She truly does not get jealous. The new path we are on is one that completely removes all sexual pleasure for me. It is going to be interesting.

[Len51]

Just an update. Last night I got an erections just looking at my clothed wife. Her mission is accomplished. She mentioned almost total sensory deprivation so that I only can feel her orgasm, not see or hear it. She thinks that will make me embrace her pleasure as my own. She did show me a pair of noise cancelling headphones that she recently bought. She is very interested in exploring this aspect of chastity. Denial of most feeling during sex. I am always game for weird sex stuff. This is not the weirdest thing we have done by a long shot. It is however the complete opposite of all else we did whose goal was more sensory feeling.

[allfullup]

Wow. That *is* really hot. Does she wear gloves while handling you too (yet)?

[Len51]

Wow. That *is* really hot. Does she wear gloves while handling you too (yet)?

She has worn gloves a few times just for a different feel for me. The problem is that she smaller than my 14 year old nieces so all the gloves are too big for her.

Just an update. My wife surprised me with an orgasm tonight and a week of being unlocked. After Valentine's Day I get locked up again until either her birthday or mine. That is 4-5 months from next week. She said that I was getting too irritable after 3 months plus I was under a lot of stress at work and she knows that orgasms are a great stress relief for me. I am comforted by the knowledge that my wife will never let me go further than I can handle at the time. She may tell me she will not let me cum for a year but if she sees it is affecting me in a negative way, she will let me cum sooner and then continue again for a little longer next time. Her new plan is to go until one of our birthdays and then shoot for a xmas orgasm. She thinks that if she gets me used to longer and longer periods of chastity gradually, it may also increase the time before I get irritable. Time will tell.

I really thought I was not going to have an orgasm soon because she told me that right now she really wants a female in bed rather than a male. I suspected as much because it has been a few years since we moved away from her long time girlfriend and my wife needs a balance of male and female in during sex to really enjoy it. She has been talking about finding another woman to join us in bed but not a stranger. That means I cannot advertise for one online. She needs to be friends first as I learned early in our marriage. We talked and she said that she enjoys my orgasm sometimes but mostly does not. However, she does not want to see me suffer or unhappy so she watches me for signs to determine if she should let me cum or not. It is comforting to know she will not let me go longer than I can handle.