chastity and response to stimulation

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chastity and response to stimulation

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Since playing with chastity the longest I've gone locked up 24/7 has been about a week. Out for a day for sex and now back in. I find that if I watch porn or read hot blogs or even think about anything erotic or kinky I'll start to get hard. Having an erection while being locked in a steel cage isn't exactly enjoyable. I'm kinda at the point now where I don't really want to look at porn because I know it won't feel good. After being in chastity for a while do you develop an aversion to things that would cause an erection or do you just not respond in the same way? I'm wondering if you get conditioned while in the cage not to get hard until the cage is taken off. Is it something that you learn gradually or is there some kind of brain rewiring going on? Being just locked up and having your erections restrained is frustrating yet a huge turn on at the same. How/when do you learn to deal with it while being in long term chastity?
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Wow, great question! I can't wait to see the responses!
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For me, it's like wiggling a loose tooth- can't stop doing it even though you know it's going to hurt.
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Fours years in chastity and I still respond to things as before. Not sure if I'm just into a little pain but I really haven't changed my habits. If I see something that's a turn on I still try to become erect in my cage and yes I still experience different levels of pain. As twisted said "can't stop doing it even though you know it's going to hurt."
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bostondan wrote: Being just locked up and having your erections restrained is frustrating yet a huge turn on at the same.
This is what I think you need to learn to enjoy, not give up porn or try to learn how to control erections. This is part of the turn on part, for me, of the chastity experience.

Maybe you need to look at this another way. I look at porn and get aroused also. LRC knows this and encourages it. She knows I've always enjoyed porn.

We look at it as a way for me to receive some extra T&D. It's really no different than when she's teasing me in the cage. What LRC likes now is she knows I won't release myself if I get overly aroused.

I actually like the feeling of arousal in the cage. I'm not taking about the excruciating morning wood type. I never get that bad looking at porn. I'm talking about the kind of arousal that fills the cage and it feels like a tight grip around me.

Being older it's a mental rush to know I can get aroused like that without needing any physical or medical encouragement.
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Locked by LRC wrote:
bostondan wrote: Being just locked up and having your erections restrained is frustrating yet a huge turn on at the same.
I actually like the feeling of arousal in the cage. I'm not taking about the excruciating morning wood type. I never get that bad looking at porn. I'm talking about the kind of arousal that fills the cage and it feels like a tight grip around me.
Exactly. Except I'd refer to it as the "ripping the balls off" kind of arousal. But reading mildly erotic material, or posts on a chastity forum or what have you, yes. The arousal is nice. I like the firm grip of the cage on my cock since ] I can't grip it. It all makes me hornier in the long run which is good. I just can't do anything about it... 8-)
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I guess I was talking more about the morning wood ball crushing sorta feeling. I'm starting to enjoy the little bit of growth - shrinkage - growth that occurs when aroused
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I enjoy getting hard in my Holy Trainer v2. It gets slightly painful if the erection lasts for a while and slows blood flow to my testicles, but it doesn't stop me from watching porn.