I want it, but I dont...

[yep_nope]

About a year and a half ago, I ordered a MM Jailbird. I needed to loose a few pounds, used it as a weight loss tool, with my wife rewarding my goals. Worked great and we had a good time doing so, I lost 55lbs and am now more healthy and comfortable than ever.... After my goal, the cage was taken off, we got busy with life and that was it. Now I feel like I am missing it, but I also enjoy masterbating at will.... before I masterbate I want to be locked and denied, a lot, but afterwards not so much. She doesnt seem to be into it too much but also seems to like having the key. I used my weight loss as a excuse to be locked last time, but not sure what to say this time (if I really want it)...what do you all think? do I forget about it, or pursue it?

[sls01234]

Be honest with her and tell why you want it. My wife was reserved st first but now enjoys it.

[Michele]

If she was already into with you, I think you should be honest and tell her you've been thinking about it lately and might want to try it out again. If it's not something totally new, it shouldn't be as difficult as bringing up the first time. Holding back could cause more issues and build resentment in your relationship. Bring it up and ask her how she feels about it.

Good luck!

[locked4her55]

First of all, good for you for losing 55lbs. I'm sure that didn't happen overnight and I'm guessing you developed a fondness for wearing your Jailbird (I know I did). Have a sit down with your wife and discuss your feeling and see where it goes. Maybe you will find it's not a 24/7/365 for you both but it still could be fun.

[all41]

Now I feel like I am missing it, but I also enjoy masterbating at will.... before I masterbate I want to be locked and denied, a lot, but afterwards not so much.

That's when the Alpha male comes out inside of you after. Before your brain is telling you its wrong but the selfish side wins and you give yourself a release anyway. Go talk to her it cant hurt.