Day 2: painful erections

[bostondan]

So I've made it through 2 days of being locked up and for the most part everything is great. I think I've figured out what size base ring I should use, 1.75. However I wake up in the middle of the night with a painful erection. My balls ache and my scrotum around the ring burns. I've tried lube but it still kills. I still have access to the key for now so I actually had to take the cage off. Showering in the morning without the cage felt so good I had to try hard not to jerk off and forced myself to put the cage back on. Once the swelling from being aroused goes away things feel good again. Is thus just normal? Does it get better witb time? If I get a custom device are there any measurements that would help with this?

Thanks

[Atone]

I would try increasing the gap a little bit if you can. I have found too small of a gap to be the major cause of ball burn for me.

[locked4her55]

To answer your other question, yes it will get better over time. Your body will adapt somewhat to having this device locked on your most precious parts. It also doesn't help in the beginning that all you can concentrate on is the feeling of being secure down there.

As others have told you, be careful when things start turning different colors or become cold. Other than that a little pain at times or discomfort is pretty standard fare until you become acclimated. There is the combination between base ring, gap and cage length size that you are aiming to achieve.

Best of luck.

[WifeIsVanilla]

i agree with Atone. i ordered my JB with the standard 3/8" gap and had a terrible problem with ball burn. I sent it back and had the gap increased to 7/16" and have had no problem ever since.

[Aarkey]

However I wake up in the middle of the night with a painful erection. My balls ache and my scrotum around the ring burns. I've tried lube but it still kills.

Sleeping through the night was the toughest thing I had to adapt to - and I took my time and tried lots of things. First, what lube are you using? I found baby oil gel worked best for me when I was first adapting - it lasts a long while. Now I use A&D ointment (you can get it in the baby stuff aisle) and its even better, though even the unscented has a strong smell.

I used to sleep on my stomach too, and that didn't work well at all. I learned to sleep on my side with a pillow between my legs. Lastly, I sleep in loose boxer briefs. During the day tight briefs help keep things from moving too much, but during sleep its good to have some movement.

The right fit in a belt is critical too - and though I learned to live in a CB 3000, I haven't regretted getting my Mature Metal jailbird for a day. The base ring is much thinner and as its custom sized, the base ring is also a little larger in diameter than the biggest one for the 3000.

But sleeping definitely takes time. Try to really make sure you urinate as completely as possible before bed, and try out different sleeping positions... and though some say toughing out out is the best way to get your body to adapt, I think giving yourself time to adjust to it is the best solution to it. Now I can sleep my full 6-7 hours without issue... but it took time.

[softlock]

I was the second night now in a chastity device and it feels fine. The first night I couldn't sleep because I was very aroused. My cock pressed against the cage and it was a heavy arousal, not a pain, so I nearly orgasmed without doing anything, but I didn't. One problem was the precum, I got very very wet and I didn't want my bed geeting spoiled. so I took a balloon over the cage, and everything stayed inside.
The second night I slept well. I woke up with a very hard on, the cage was pressed away so that there was a light burning in the scrotum from the base ring; but again it wasn't pain, it was a heavy nice arousal. Its a nice feeling the cock in the cage and getting stimulated in a very soft manner.
Maybe tonight I will remove the cage. My aim is to find out if after wearing the cage two days and nights I can get a better and harder erection, because I have some ED. Now it feels that I should explode if released, so I'll see if it works.

[fineline]

Give it more than two nights. Give it several nights, a couple of weeks..... Then you'll find out how hard you haven't been and what you've been missing in sensitivity and staying power. The wait is worth it. But just two nights? Meh.

[Linus]

Give it more than two nights. Give it several nights, a couple of weeks..... Then you'll find out how hard you haven't been and what you've been missing in sensitivity and staying power. The wait is worth it. But just two nights? Meh.

I agree!
It took me almost a month to overcome the pain due to nocturnal erections
The severity does reduce day by day as penis gets adjusted to staying locked
Now after 2 years my mind is so conditioned that I wake up automatically just before nocturnal erection, pee and go back to sleep

[slave d]

I agree!

Now after 2 years my mind is so conditioned that I wake up automatically just before nocturnal erection, pee and go back to sleep

Hopefully you get out of bed to pee lol !!

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