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[Michele]

Yup that's my new journey haha 8 days denied to see what it's like, if I can handle it... I don't have much faith in myself haha but this ought to be interesting. I did manage to not cum yesterday so we'll see if I can make it to the 14th!

Wish me luck!

[sherulestherooster]

Is he teasing/edging you and then not letting you get your big-O? How do you like it so far?

I would not enjoy that, even if she asked. However, I have been fantasizing about partially switching roles. The switch being that I control her orgasms - how I give them to her, and more importantly, how many. I would go for like five (she's usually just happy with one). I guess this is a "forced orgasm" fantasy. As part of this fantasy, I would really like to edge her, just to see if it intensifies her orgasms the way it intensified mine. I'm very interested in that.

Good luck!

[WifeIsVanilla]

Wow! Being a fan of your blog and your posts, I must say this sounds fascinating! I hope Monkey does a good job of edging you during this period, and I am wondering how long you will be able to last under any circumstances, especially if he does. I eagerly await your thoughts about this experience.

[EDAS]

As a man, I love the idea of this. I love it a lot. I thought that since women can have multiple orgasms there was not need for this kind of reverse pleasure (the pleasure of NOT orgasming) that I am into. I should maybe explain myself.

I am male as I said, and I do not like to have orgasms when I fuck my wife or when I masturbate. This is MY choice, not my wife's. I find that I derive greater sexual pleasure by NOT having orgasms -- something which may sound very strange. This is because I do not like the down that a man ends up feeling AFTER an orgasm. I want to stay in a sky-high kind of sexual tension, and the only way to do this is not to orgasm.

So, yes, I fuck my wife, and she has multiple orgasms -- but at some point, I just withdraw from her cunt and I thus remain hard as nails. She will often caress my hard-on at this point, but knows not to push me over the edge. And so, after all of that, we just go to sleep.

What I mean to say is that the sexual pleasure I derive from not orgasming is, at least in my mind, close to what women feel with multiple orgasms. It is not the same, I know, but close enough: the sensation of being constantly on a sexual high. Now, yes, I know, there are claims that men can also have multiple orgasms without ejaculating (they have full body orgasms, etc.). But I just do not believe in all of that.

Today marks the eight week since I have had an orgasm. Though I have fucked and masturbated during these eight weeks, I have not come -- not once. Lors of pre-cum though. Loads of that.

The reasons that I am writing this is to say that I am trying to feel something that is close to what women feel when they, like my wife, have multiple orgasms. So it is NOT denial strictly speaking that I want: I want what women are lucky to have -- even if I can only have the shadow of what women are lucky enough to have (multiple orgasms).

So, again, the reason I am writing this is to say or maybe ask the woman who initiated this thread (and whose blog I really love): why don't you just continue having multiple orgasms -- after all: THAT IS THE GOAL! My own kind of denial is just an attempt to come a little ways close to what you woman are lucky to have! And of course I love all of you women for that -- and for many other reason too!

[Michele]

Yes, he is teasing & edging me! It's crazy, it's not me lol I'm the one who cums 10 times a day whenever and however I want... this is practically killing me! I will say that teasing me is teasing him like mad and he's way more frustrated since he hasn't had an orgasm in 3 weeks!

I'm not posting this on the blog just yet because I don't see me making it this time haha but I'll see where I get to, like I said! This will happen again and at some point I'd like us to try mutual chastity and denial haha omg I'm nuts!

[Michele]

@EDAS Hi there! What you say you about not wanting to orgasm is actually not all that weird! I know of a few guys here, in particular, that feel that way.

Now, why don't I keep orgasming? Oh I will haha but like you want to feel what it's like for a woman to have multiples, I want to feel what it's like to be teased and denied! Trust me that my denial will in no way ever compare to my hubby's... I just can't do that haha but to feel just a small bit of that high... I need to see if it's something I'd enjoy - likely not but whatever

[EDAS]

Thanks, LadynMonkey. It sounds like you are enjoying viewing things as seen from the "other" side, i.e. seeing what the fuss is about on the male side with this desire for denial.

I am sure you will go back to your multiple orgasms after this, and enjoy that much more how women have by far the better end of the sexual deal in all of this!

[Michele]

women have by far the better end of the sexual deal in all of this!

Yes, yes we do... as we should

[Michele]

Well hubby is/was having way too much fun with me and last night he forced me... yes FORCED me to cum over and over, I begged him not to, I begged him to stop... I even got close to using my safe word! It pretty much started to hurt to be touched after a bit. I completely lost any ability to count the multiple orgasms.

Off to blog about this! Haha

[EDAS]

So... you broke your vows of chastity. Not a good start for a hopeful nun!

I hate women who glory in their multiple orgasmic bliss. Translation: I LOVE women for unashamedly glorying in their orgasmic bliss and flaunting it to our (male) faces.