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jsmyer
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Post by jsmyer »

Hi

I am new to the chastity arena. My wife and I recently bought a CB6000S and I am in to night 2. My problem is probably a common one but how do you get round to being woken up by the nocturnal erection whilst being locked up?

Help.....
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Intense_Restraint
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A lot of us enjoy the nocturnal wake-up. Usually I am just half-awakened, and I quickly fall back to sleep, happy to know that my private parts are secure and waiting for eventual release.
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jsmyer wrote:Hi

I am new to the chastity arena. My wife and I recently bought a CB6000S and I am in to night 2. My problem is probably a common one but how do you get round to being woken up by the nocturnal erection whilst being locked up?

Help.....
I don't think you boys can actually get around it... as it make it not happen but I have heard that over time your body doesn't get them as often our as hard? Maybe it starts to learn?

As far as I know it is just something you have to deal with... but maybe one of these boys has a trick. :)
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HornyHutch
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Apply a little lube before bed, it won't stop anything but will make it a little more comfortable. Also when it does wake you up, get up and go pee. Then you'll be ready to go back to sleep.
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I am also in a 6000s. I get the pressure/pain at the back of my testicles as the ring gets pulled tight against them during nocturnal erections. The things I have done, that has been suggested on many different websites, is I make sure to pee before bed, and I put a small dab of lotion all around the back of my testicles, behind and under the ring.

Those steps plus your body gets used to it over time is all the advice I can offer. I still get woken up early morning with some pressure, but where it was once almost unbearable, now its just my wakeup call.

Hope that helps

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HisDuty
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When locked up, I probably need to get up twice a night to pee to relieve the pressure. However, after a few days that drops to once a night. I suppose if I were locked up long enough, I might make it through the night.

Short answer, I think your body will likely adapt to its physical constraints. Hang in there, it's worth it!
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Yes, it's that common question that all newbies ask! All the guys and lady who replied to your question are spot on. Funnily enough our manhood's somehow learn to accept they're not allowed an erection and start to deal with it better as if they had a brain all of their own. Mind you "man-hater's" often say we think with our dicks!

I've been locked for a very long time now and my Princess only allows me out once or twice a week for a thorough but very quick wash and tease to heighten my frustration. As a warning, my little man became so behaved in his cage that I went through the phase when I used to worry whether or not he would get an erection when he was released. I've given THAT fear up now - he ALWAYS responds to his Princess on release.

Good luck on your chastity!
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Not much you can do about it but find a good sleeping position, after a bit of time it will ease off.
Keep some lube handy so you can apply during the night if needed to apply around the ring etc.

Ive had to stop spooning as it would drive me nuts (guys you know what im talkin about)
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LockedUp24 wrote:Not much you can do about it but find a good sleeping position, after a bit of time it will ease off.
Keep some lube handy so you can apply during the night if needed to apply around the ring etc.

Ive had to stop spooning as it would drive me nuts (guys you know what im talkin about)
Yeah! Absolutely! I used to love spooning my Princess and she used to encourage me and wiggle a bit because she knew what it did to me. Needless to say I had to get wise and stop myself doing it. Hey Ho!
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Easy answer is to not wear it while you are sleeping. :) It all depends on what you are using it for. A lot has to do with what significance you place on your chastity device. For some, it symbolizes the control that their partner has over their penis. Some see being locked for a long time as a personal challenge in self control. For others, like me, it is purely for masturbation control and we only wear it when there is a good chance for that to happen. If wearing a chastity device 24/7 is a big part of your fantasy, then wear it or you will not be happy. It was part of my original fantasy but also was the cause of my quitting chastity for a while due to discomfort at night and frequent urination needs. The next time, I went to fantasy plan B and just wore it as necessary and it has worked out well for us and became our lifestyle. We are now experimenting with the optimum time for me to remain in chastity. That will bring us to Plan C, the final solution. :) We are still experimenting after 5 months so do not get discouraged. Heck, it took me this long to get the perfect fit on my CB6000. Now I can wear it without discomfort the whole day.
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