I have been working on her managing my sexuality for the last 5 years. So this weekend with Her cold, she did not want me to make love to her. Well thats expected. She was coughing allot and it really distressed me too.
So today, just a little bit ago, while we were talking on the phone, She told me that she felt guilty that she didn't want to have sex this past weekend. KABOOM! I was very gentle, and sweet, I again told her that the most wonderful thing after her orgasms, for me, is how much I love, respect and cherish her when I am kept chaste for more than 5 or 8 days. I proceeded to thank her, again, profusely for the wonderful gift that she bestows on me by keeping me chaste. I explained that the longer I am kept for her, the stronger my feelings of love, respect and cherishing her become, and those feelings are infinitely better, and longer lasting than a 2 second ejaculation. further more I explained to her that after about 7 days of chastity when I lovingly massage her feet, sleep next to her naked, or she just has her feet on my lap when we are watching the television, I am able to have orgazms that last for minutes and I do not ejaculate during these orgazms and they can and are multiple at times. I went on to tell Her that over this weekend, I experienced a conservative number of at least 30 of these orgazms. and that if she made me ejaculate that would stop for at least a week till the neuro-chemicals are able to build up again in my brain. I also told her that after I do have an ejaculation I experience depression for a couple days, because I have lost that loving feeling.
But seriously I told her that I enjoy Her orgazns way more than my own, even the ones that happen without ejaculation, and those are quite moving. Maybe it is a product of the hypnosis recordings that have associating pleasing her with wonderful feelings for me. a line or paraphrase is 'obeying her,pleases her, and pleasing her is a very wonderful feeling.' AND IT IS! Either way she is seeing the benefits, of a chastised, submissive man. And I an living a wonderful fantasy.
In conclusion,(I think) the combination of male chastity blog info , FLR info and the male submissive info all work together. Actually, I cannot see how a man could have one and not the other two. I think they all three go hand in hand. At first, I was suspect, but then after much thought, I decided there has to be a level of commitment, and You will need to have a cow, if you want milk, a chicken if you want eggs, and there has to be an amount of FLR, and male submission, if you want male chastity. We are getting there.
She has been brought up to believe that women are nothing more than sex toys for men, and that is how She has been treated all her life. I explained that I was aware of that, and that it is hard to change the social conditioning that the best a woman can expect from a man is that he might be a good slave master.
She does enjoy being the Queen of my life.