How many days without...

[Risca]

Who has gone the longest time without being allowed an orgasm/ejaculation? And what do people think of the concept of a man never being allowed to have one?

[Atone]

probably a Tibetan Monk. Doesn't sound like fun to me.

-A

[Dev]

I had an email from a guy who told me he went 19 months. We have a member here who is working on one year. The longest for my husband (so far) is 60 days but lately, I haven't been keeping track. His last orgasm was sometime right after Thanksgiving. How long ago was that? ::shrugs::

D

[cb6000s]

I am 57 years old. If my KH told me that I would never have another orgasm but that she would tease me daily and I would please her as she desired I would be happy with that. I don't know if i would have been happy with that at 27 years old.

[Atone]

I am 57 years old. If my KH told me that I would never have another orgasm ....

yeah but at that age just how long would that be? would you measure that in months, or weeks?

-A

[cb6000s]

yeah but at that age just how long would that be? would you measure that in months, or weeks? -A

Ah youth. In the words of Bob Dylan. "but I was so much younger then,
I’m wiser than that now."

[poinciana]

I've been without since September 10. We're not trying for any record, it's just the way our life is playing out at the moment. For me, ejaculating is more and more becoming just one small chapter in an ever-growing book of sexual pleasure possibilities. It's a fascinating journey.

If my wife decides that I can never have another ejaculation, that would be her choice and I would respect it, and she knows that. She also knows what kinks I like, and she's very kind and generous in that regard, so it's not like I would be going without any pleasure.

But it's not about me.

[Dev]

I think you make a very good point...a keyholder (wife) needs to be kind and generous. That's a big part of the equation of making long-term chastity a viable option in a couple's life. I am certainly working towards that.

D

[danj]

I must also agree with the "kind and generous" statement. I know some do get off on the cruel mistress keyholder, but I don't think I would enjoy that at all. Glad my wife/keyholder is also the kind and generous type!

[Atone]

-Dan

and yes, that IS my beautiful wife wearing the key to my cb-6000s!

Dan, thanks for sharing, that is a beautiful image.

-A