My Mistress and I have played with chastity off and on for the last year or so. We started out with a day or two here and there. Eventually we worked up to 10 days. It was unbelievably hot and we both enjoyed it very much. However, when we played I would only wear the device at home or if we were out.
We've talked about locking me up 24/7 but haven't taken that step until now. Starting tonight Mistress will be locking me up for "at least a week to start". She will have the only accessible key and I will have a sealed key for emergencies only.
I'm extremely excited about this. I want to serve her and told her that she is 100% in charge in the bedroom for as long as we play. I am a little nervous since she didn't give me an exact day on when she will release me, but that's all part of the game, right?
Any advice for someone that's new to the 24/7 lifestyle?
As finallyhappy stated, don't be afraid to talk about how you’re are feeling, how she's feeling and how it's going in general. I learned a lot about my wife and honestly how her body works sexually. I took it for granted for so many years what I thought turned her on. I was wrong on so many counts.
Where you are now with chastity is where many of us have been. Take it slow. Since you are wearing it 24/7 you have chastity on your mind every waking hour. She doesn't. I found I had to hold back in the beginning. All I wanted to do was talk about it. Let things develop and give her time to warm up to this.
I would venture a guess from what I have read from others here that not always did the idea of chastity go over big with their KH/wives. I do believe that the majority can now report that their KH/wives, with time have more than accepted the lifestyle. Just try to make it all about her and you will both reap the benefits.
Happily secured since 4/2010
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
My slave has been doing very well over these last few days. Since going 24/7 it has been on his mind constantly. I am getting much enjoyment out of his frustration. As I must go on a business trip next week, I have told him he won't be released until after I come back. I could see the fear in his eyes. My thoughts are this, if we want to embrace this lifestyle then we should do just that. I think in time he won't have fear in his eyes, but anticipation. His attentiveness is what I expect and deserve. Chastity reminds him of that.
