Whoops! Pandora's Box Opened

[cumsteves]

I introduced the concept of ruined orgasms to my wife and keyholder yesterday afternoon and I've had two off her already, once at bedtime and one again in the morning. I said to her that I wouldn't want them all the time but qulaified that it was her eecison and she replied 'yes, it is!'. This afternoon she said she has a surprise for me tonight but I might not like it I think I'm gonna be getting a lot of ruined orgasms while unlocked.

[Blaeu]

How do you feel after a ruined orgasm? I haven't had one in a while, but I remember feeling bitter afterwards, like the entire time spent doing everything was a waste. I would rather just not have an orgasm than ruin one.

Having said that, last night I actually suggested that we try them again as I may feel differently as circumstances are different now. We'll see.

Anyway, I'm just curious to how you react to them. Also, how do you ruin them and do you use different ways?

[cumsteves]

Well, I wanted her to do it to me because I wanted to experience what it felt like I can't say that I enjoyed it ona physical level as it was extremely frustrating but on an emotional level I found it a real headtrip. It's not about the ruining as much as it was about our relationship i think. I didn't feel bitter just incredibly horny but I get off on that feeling and love being denied. Technique wise it was just the simple wanking then removing all stimulation. I've done it to myself a few times but it was nothing compared to feeling her whip her hand away just at the moment I was about to cum to be left with a puddle of semen on my belly. To actually ejaculate with an orgasm was quite overwhelming, Ithink she enjoyed it too.

[fraze]

I enjoy them but for me its given as a punishment with BDSM. She'll slap my face or my cock when she sees me get started. It's pretty special.