What do you do
What do you do
Just finished 6+ weeks of denial. Really a hot time for both of us. Second longest we have gone. She truly does decide when but she fully beleives that my orgasm inside her is the ultimate act of love she can have! So who am I to argue. Now the questions after a long period of denial do you take some time off? How long? Are there any restrictions? How many orgasms do you have before being denied again? Does anyone just stop playing untill you both want to begin again? I know there will be a lot of different aswers but might be fun to see how each one is tries to pursue what both want! KBCB
- Tom Allen
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Re: What do you do
We used to take a few days off to readjust, but we discovered that it was actually hottest for both of us to lock me back up immediately afterward, since that's when I least wanted to go back in.
No, it doesn't make sense, but that's how it worked.
No, it doesn't make sense, but that's how it worked.
Tom Allen
The Edge of Vanilla
Denial Permanente
The Edge of Vanilla
Denial Permanente
Re: What do you do
We're just into a 6-7 week (end of September) period at the moment. Partly it's an experiment to see if it will go off without direct stimulation over that period, but it may well go the full 7 weeks. I think the best thing is to get right back into it. If I have a really big orgasm, as I expect I will in this case, I get a mood drop and my kinky levels kind of flatline for a few days and sometimes longer. If chastity is about more than just the few weeks, then my preference is to lock back up right away and try and re-energize the sexual and naughty energy.
Living with my 2 favorite people, in a semi-poly situation. Serving my Mistress Crosby, who holds my keys.
Re: What do you do
I would think that it would be best to go right back in, or take a few days off then back in. Only reason I say that is, when I get a release my sexual drive is low and also my focus drops. If I go more than a few hours I don't find a sexual drive to chastity. Yet after a few days it is back on my mind. Over the years I used the fantasy of chastity when masturbating and know that mentally I need a few days to enjoy the idea, but I would love the idea of going right back in. Thus the ability of being "free" would only be for the mutual enjoyment of sex and truly only meant for her...
I have finally found the device I needed to begin my journey in chastity. I have never been happier in my marriage to my wife, lover, soul mate and now Keyholder.
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Re: What do you do
I feel the same as Tom, it's hottest if I know that as soon as she is done with me her "toys" will be locked away again, whether I want to or not.
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Re: What do you do
Haven't really gone too long being locked up without any removal. As we all know a CB Series device needs frequent removal for proper cleaning and I spent 2 years in both a CB3000 & CB6000s. I have been in a MM JailBird since April but it has gone back for several modifications. I am now in the middle of a 57 day "lockdown" with September 5th being my "scheduled" release date. My JB is sooooooo comfortable now that I know I will feel naked when it's off, even for a short period. With that said I believe my wife will lock me right back up after my next release. She says I'm better focused when secured 

Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Re: What do you do
No time off for me. The very first time we followed Sarah Jameson's advice and had a couple of days off with multiple orgasms for me. That didn't really work for us so we tried just a single orgasm and then locked right back up for another long stint immediately following. That has worked much better so we are sticking with it for now. Actually, I haven't had an orgasm for a long time and don't expect one any time soon so I guess it is kind of moot.
Belongs to Michele (Lady M)
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Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Re: What do you do
My KH likes to have me out of my Jailbird when ever I'm in Her presence. She likes to reach over and tease or grope Her cock with nothing in Her way. So I sleep nude and wear no underwear in Her presence. I get locked up whenever we are going to be apart for any length of time. This works out great for us. Lots of tease and denial going on all day long.
Mrfelix
Devices worn: Dickcage, CB6000s, Lori's 2A
Now wearing: MM Jail Bird
Devices worn: Dickcage, CB6000s, Lori's 2A
Now wearing: MM Jail Bird
Re: What do you do
She likes locking me up immediately after. Whether I'm out for T&D or an "O", I can be assured she wants me right back in. I prefer it that way too.