Female/male orgasm ratio

michael · Post by **michael** » Sat May 12, 2012 2:27 pm

Some say it should be 10:1, 100:1. It is a nonsense. The only good male orgasm is ruined male orgasm. So the man is always in focus and ready to satisfy your female partner. When a man starts wearing a chastity belt, he wants to orgasm. After a period of three or more months, for men real orgasm is just a nuisance. The man is much more in focus when have is very rarely real orgasm (one per year or less). These stories about female / male orgasm ratio, should forget. Ruined orgasm is acceptable after a period of denial.

hot_toddy_dog · Post by **hot_toddy_dog** » Sat May 12, 2012 6:02 pm

I agree absolutely - male orgasm is just a nuisance, and on top of that it makes a mess. I am no longer allowed out of my device to have orgasms any more. Currently it is just ruined orgasms in the device, but I am training to eliminate those as well.

finallyhappy · Post by **finallyhappy** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:32 pm

You guys are crazy. I love being locked up and I love having to wait for an orgasm and I love making sure my gf can have one anytime she wants one. But for me the delay is just foreplay. I love the hunger but no way am I giving up my orgasms. And as far as the mess goes, nothing is as complete a feeling as the release of a man inside a woman. And that goes for both parties.

Breed36 · Post by **Breed36** » Sat May 12, 2012 10:45 pm

Not sure where I fall on this question but having some arbitrary ratio seems pointless. Why not let the man be locked up and kept orgasmless until his KH says its ok? If that's 3-1, 10-1, 100-1, etc it's up to the couple. No hard and fast rules on this one

Post by **celticqueens_sub** » Sun May 13, 2012 4:21 am

finallyhappy wrote:You guys are crazy. I love being locked up and I love having to wait for an orgasm and I love making sure my gf can have one anytime she wants one. But for me the delay is just foreplay. I love the hunger but no way am I giving up my orgasms. And as far as the mess goes, nothing is as complete a feeling as the release of a man inside a woman. And that goes for both parties.

They are not crazy, they just have a different point of view than yours. There is quite a lot of irony in your opening statement... you being locked up and all... I wonder what some people might think about that?

michael · Post by **michael** » Sun May 13, 2012 6:12 am

reply to finallyhappy Male orgasm is the obstacle in this lifestyle. The woman's enjoyment is the most important. Everything else is adjusting it. Men's desire to satisfy a woman is much better when he does not have orgasm. It's better ruined orgasm, after several weeks without orgasm.

J&M · Post by **J&M** » Sun May 13, 2012 7:51 am

"J" Here:

As we are both new to this lifestyle I believe that the orgasam issue should be entirely in the KH's hands. It doesn't matter if it's 1 day in chastity or a lifetime of chastity the point here is that the KH makes the decision. That's what this lifestyle is about, at least that what I think in the short time we have been exploring this new life together. Today is my 11th day in a row locked up and denied orgasam and I have to say that I love it. I have not asked my KH/Mistress Wife for release of any kind, it's not my place to ask, it's my place to be guided by HER needs and instruction even though we are both learning. Everyone is different and there are no right, wrong, or crazy ways or people.

That's my two cents worth.

finallyhappy · Post by **finallyhappy** » Sun May 13, 2012 11:26 am

michael wrote:reply to finallyhappy Male orgasm is the obstacle in this lifestyle. The woman's enjoyment is the most important. Everything else is adjusting it. Men's desire to satisfy a woman is much better when he does not have orgasm. It's better ruined orgasm, after several weeks without orgasm.

See this is where you and I disagree. The male orgasm may be an obstacle to your lifestyle of servitude or whatever it may be that you desire.

But it is a must in my lifestyle. Mine is a male led relationship and that will never change. Locking me up serves both of us well but for different reasons. And there is no real point in drawing up that whole list right here. But delay it and toy with it as much as she as I wish, there is nothing more loving and initmate than a man releasing inside of a woman. And that is something neither she nor I would ever choose to live without.

finallyhappy · Post by **finallyhappy** » Sun May 13, 2012 11:52 am

celticqueens_sub wrote:
finallyhappy wrote:You guys are crazy. I love being locked up and I love having to wait for an orgasm and I love making sure my gf can have one anytime she wants one. But for me the delay is just foreplay. I love the hunger but no way am I giving up my orgasms. And as far as the mess goes, nothing is as complete a feeling as the release of a man inside a woman. And that goes for both parties.
They are not crazy, they just have a different point of view than yours. There is quite a lot of irony in your opening statement... you being locked up and all... I wonder what some people might think about that?

Without a doubt, the people that I have told about it, do not understand it. But we also have a discussion about the pros and cons of it, and what is in it for me.

It is the mindless drivel in absolute terms that was presented as some universal thruth that is annoying.

Post by **celticqueens_sub** » Sun May 13, 2012 2:09 pm

.....universal thruth that is annoying.

There is only one universal truth... and that is, there is no universal truth...

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