Exploring Chastity

[CaptivatedCaveman]

Hello all. I just joined the forums and thought I'd introduce myself. My wife and I are in our early/mid-40's. She's the breadwinner and I'm the stay-home parent.

We've been playing with various flavors of femdom throughout our relationship. There have been highs and lows as we've worked out how to have a mutually satisfying sex life. In the last year we seem to have settled into a routine that makes us both very happy.

We experimented with chastity a year (or two?) ago when I purchased a CB-3000. I had a great deal of difficulty wearing it for more than a few hours at a time, as my testicles tend to hug very close to my body. Eventually the damn thing split at the seam and that was the end of that.

Since then we've always wanted to try again. I've done some reading on a variety of websites and usually come away with conflicting bits of advice. The conclusion I've come to is that what works for one person doesn't for another and I just have to learn what works for me via trial and error.

I want to purchase a metal device at some point in the future. For now I've purchased a CB-6000S to experiment with different sizing options and to confirm that I can train my body to wear the device long term.

For now I have some questions specific to the CB-6000S which I will post shortly in the Chastity Device subforum (at least that's where I assume they go). If all goes well I'll have many more questions when it comes time to purchase some metal.

Lastly, I guess I'm hoping that a like-minded community will help me get through the rough patches on the road ahead.

[locked4her55]

CaptivatedCaveman

Welcome! Looks like you are off to a good start by taking your time in getting adjusted with the CB6000s. It worked well for me before I decided to spend the serious money on a custom fit Stainless Steel device.

My advice would be to read up on the subject as much as possible. This Forum proved to be invaluable for me with contributions from serious level headed Male Chastity men and women.

Good Luck. Hopefully your rough patches won't be coming from inside your CD.

[CaptivatedCaveman]

Hopefully your rough patches won't be coming from inside your CD.

That's exactly what I'm afraid of based on prior experience, but I'm determined to make another go of it.

After a very hectic week my wife and I finally had some time to cuddle and chat last night. I discussed with her some of the stories I've come across here, such as the husband having to guess which of three keys unlocked his device, or the wonderful "Maybe Day". Her reaction was, "those are really hot."

At that moment it hit home for me what I am at the precipice of. In all the other games we've played, I've never felt the potential for the utter loss of control I feel now. It's both exhilaratingly erotic and incredibly terrifying.

[locked4her55]

[/quote]It's both exhilaratingly erotic and incredibly terrifying.[/quote]

Couldn't have said it any better. Welcome to what many of us feel everyday