Do you always or just sometimes remove the base ring of your CD when your KH gives you some attention?
When my wife does tease/please me, she will typically have me remove the CD. She can take the tube off easy enough, even if I start to get hard. But the base ring is another story. Even when flaccid, it is not easy to remove or put on. If I am partially hard, it is even more difficult to remove and nearly imposible to put on.
She is afraid she is going to cause me too much pain if she removes the base ring, and she is probably right. So, for the most part, she has been having me remove the CD when we play. And she now refuses to try and put it back on again as this has gone wrong several times.
It would seem that leaving the base ring on would be a reasonable option some of the time. My current CD has a big locking post protruding from the ring. But I plan to upgrade to a steelworxx with the integrated lock. I am hoping this will work out better.
Suggestions?
Thanks
Playing while wearing the base ring?
Playing while wearing the base ring?
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
I am pent in a Steelheart with the integrated lock and my base ring is small enough for me to have discomfort every time it has to go over my balls.
Generally Chatelaine will unlock me in the morning and spend the day teasing (comments, texts, stroking etc) if she wants to play with me. This is in no small part to finding out that the cock sometimes needs a little time to recoup from being shackled before performing for her.
However, sometimes the mood just takes her and if I am the slightest bit aroused the back ring needs a cold shower to stand a chance of removal - so we have played with it in place. There are a couple of lugs and edges that'll really get your attention (or worse hers) but this can be reduced by putting the lock back in before play. Sliding the lock block under your balls might be something that is better for her than you as well.
Chatelaine also has the option of the Dual Cock Ring that shares the lock. This means that she gets presented with a cock that is more dildo than flesh and one that can only satisfy my ego. To date I have yet to manage to cum whilst in it. It's not her favourite option though so playing with it on is a treat for me.
Generally Chatelaine will unlock me in the morning and spend the day teasing (comments, texts, stroking etc) if she wants to play with me. This is in no small part to finding out that the cock sometimes needs a little time to recoup from being shackled before performing for her.
However, sometimes the mood just takes her and if I am the slightest bit aroused the back ring needs a cold shower to stand a chance of removal - so we have played with it in place. There are a couple of lugs and edges that'll really get your attention (or worse hers) but this can be reduced by putting the lock back in before play. Sliding the lock block under your balls might be something that is better for her than you as well.
Chatelaine also has the option of the Dual Cock Ring that shares the lock. This means that she gets presented with a cock that is more dildo than flesh and one that can only satisfy my ego. To date I have yet to manage to cum whilst in it. It's not her favourite option though so playing with it on is a treat for me.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
My wife didn't like the plastic CB3000 at all so it came all the way off.
I was allowed to self play one time with the MM Jailbird ring on (has a post) but it didn't work out, the post would dig in to the shaft and wasn't very pleasant. Definitely came off when we played together. Never had an orgasm with it on so I don't know what that was like.
Tried with the base ring of the Steelheart on once or twice but didn't like it either. Like poor suggested there are some sharp edges on it too. The bigger issue is that by the time I got to the Steelheart I was using pretty small rings and they just aren't comfortable to be fully erect in.
I have Dual Cock Ring as well although I don't wear it too often. I did have a ruined orgasm in it once. I hope I never forget it so I don't actually try to do that again. It was not a pleasant experience.
I was allowed to self play one time with the MM Jailbird ring on (has a post) but it didn't work out, the post would dig in to the shaft and wasn't very pleasant. Definitely came off when we played together. Never had an orgasm with it on so I don't know what that was like.
Tried with the base ring of the Steelheart on once or twice but didn't like it either. Like poor suggested there are some sharp edges on it too. The bigger issue is that by the time I got to the Steelheart I was using pretty small rings and they just aren't comfortable to be fully erect in.
I have Dual Cock Ring as well although I don't wear it too often. I did have a ruined orgasm in it once. I hope I never forget it so I don't actually try to do that again. It was not a pleasant experience.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
I almost always have the base ring on. When I get the "special" orgasm it will come off. The post does get in the way for some activities but turning the ring so the post is under the sack works fine.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
We had Mature Metal design my "Pet Trap" with a removable locking pin, so I would not damage my KH / Wife. We leave the A-Ring on as it would be impossable to remove when we play.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
We usually remove the ring as well although there have been a few times we haven't. Mrs. Twisted is unable to remove the ring if it isn't hinged. There was one time when I had a mended hinged ring on (broken hinge portion mended with JB Weld, so it no longer opened) and we fell asleep afterward, without replacing the cage. Unrestrained, and apparently long-lasting, nocturnal erections left me with a rather ugly case of edema. It took quite some time to resolve itself and even now it can look a little 'warped' when erect. I would advise avoiding this situation.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
Long lasting nocturnal erections should be dealt with even if restrained. I can and do sleep through even when they wake me up. Sometimes I am tired enough to just go back to sleep. They don't hurt but they are persistent. I am pretty sure that caused a little bit of a "bend" on the shaft at one point. It has since gone away but I am more careful now.TwistedMister wrote:Unrestrained, and apparently long-lasting, nocturnal erections left me with a rather ugly case of edema. It took quite some time to resolve itself and even now it can look a little 'warped' when erect. I would advise avoiding this situation.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
I actually forget that! There is a large degree of physical discomfort, the cock and balls are hugely pumped and once erect I'm like that for at least 10mins. It's the balls that hurt most though and they carry on hurting once it's subsided.Atone wrote: I have Dual Cock Ring as well although I don't wear it too often. I did have a ruined orgasm in it once. I hope I never forget it so I don't actually try to do that again. It was not a pleasant experience.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
Still using the the old school CB3000, and I bought some of the even older school solid cuff rings from the CB2000. Once they are sanded down and polished up, they make nice cock rings, so we always play with them on.
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Re: Playing while wearing the base ring?
My KH says 'if' she was to grant the removal of the cage for playing the base ring would remain on.
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Wore CB6000 throughout 2012 & 2013.
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Wore CB6000 throughout 2012 & 2013.
Currently wearing Jail House since early 2014.