Well, well, well...Dan Savage

[Dev]

Well, look what is in Dan Savage's column today...

What do you know about orgasm denial for men? My husband is asking me to try all kinds of crazy things like locking him in a chastity device and denying him orgasms until he begs. Is that safe? Do many couples do it? I admit I find it kind of sexy, but how in the world do I figure out how to do it and make it fun for him?

Wants Info For Erotics

Except in the most extreme cases, WIFE, male chastity play isn't really about orgasm denial. It's more of an elaborate, extended kind of foreplay, a way of introducing elements of erotic power and control that usually result in the denied/chaste man having more orgasms, not fewer.

There's no way of knowing how many wives out there are locking up their husbands' dicks, WIFE, but there are enough couples doing it to keep male chastity device manufacturers in business (www.cb-6000.com) and enough couples interested in male chastity play for publishers to bring out books that explain how to do it and how to make it pleasurable (Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne, Be Careful What You Wish For...: The Ultimate Guide to Male Chastity by Sarah Jameson).

As for safety: Make sure you get a chastity device that fits properly, WIFE, as you don't want his dick to go numb, develop gangrene, and fall off—that would be nullification, not chastity. And don't deny your husband orgasms for weeks or months on end, as that could elevate his risk for developing prostate cancer.

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/Sava ... id=5395779

Off to read the comments...

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[Dev]

I just read the comments and there is a link to this forum! I predict a flood of visitors and maybe a few new members. Welcome, everyone!

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[thumper]

Dan. Really? The prostate cancer thing? Oh well...

The bigger issue I have is with the line about more orgasms vs. fewer. Yeah, right.

[RoadWarrior]

Dev,

I went there to see what you posted more than anything.
If you haven't been back, you ought to see how riled up you got
one of the readers. LMAO!

He didn't get it and I would suspect most people wouldn't.
There will be some additional traffic here but I think it will be temporary.

[Dev]

The bigger issue I have is with the line about more orgasms vs. fewer. Yeah, right.

I know. But at least he didn't call us freaks.

I see Belle left a comment, too...

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[Dev]

There will be some additional traffic here but I think it will be temporary.

If two people get interested/intrigued...then that's two more who might embark on a new and exciting adventure. "Convincing skeptics, one at a time." LOL.

And yes, I saw that poor person who is ready to toss her yogurt...

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[Belle]

I see Belle left a comment, too...

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Yep, I am on a roll. Posted a comment, posted a blog, I love when the kids nap at the same time!

[Dev]

I think you might have a future writing erotica, Belle. Very, very hot.

Tell me what this pinwheel is?

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[Belle]

Thanks!
It is called a Wartenberg Pinwheel. He loves it!

[Tom Allen]

:ahem:

The "yogurt tosser" is a man. He was using one of those euphemism thingies.