Ball Squeeze

[mistress is god]

Can I get some advice from the group.

I have been in and out of chastity for the best part of 2 years now and although my wife’s hates the thought of any device I am a secret chastity wearer and just put on and take off whenever leaving the house (i.e. going to work). Unlocked chastity is not an issue in our house boring vanilla sex only happens once a year if the wind is in the right direction.

I have a CB2k and 3k but the 3k is my most favourite. I can very happily ware it for long periods of time and think nothing of wearing it for the week if I am away. I tend to find for longer periods of time it is best to use the solid ring from the 2K with the cage from the 3K. Works well.

My question (sorry waffling it happens by day 38 your mind goes )

Normal ware is fine unless I get cold, my scrotum is very tight anyway but the moment my balls get cold they want to disappear up inside me. The pain that I get from my scrotum (not my balls) as it clenches so tightly, is unbearable. In most situations I either need to unlock fast or just heat up quick.

Does anybody else have the same issue?
What did you do to overcome it?
Did you change to a different device? If so what?

[Tom Allen]

You might want to check out this thread on pretty much the same topic.

tl;dr: I live in New England, and it gets chilly in the winter. And yes, the cold weather tries to make everything shrink up into my body, and yes, some mornings getting into the car is pretty painful.

[wishful4]

Same thing happens to me, too. I have to be careful not to let my scrotum get too cold. The only way I have ever been able to relieve the pain is to get off my feet, sit down and try to get them warmer. It is a natural function of the scrotum, trying to maintain the optimum temp for sperm. I find that not using lube on the base ring helps, as well.

[Edgewood]

I think it’s worth wondering out loud if your base ring is too large/loose. I can't imagine it would ever get cold enough that my nuts could move through the small gap between the tube and the base ring of my 6000s.

Your intermittent wearing may be an issue. From what I've read, and my own personal experience, once guys are accustomed to being locked up most of them usually move down a ring or two. I’m going to bet that you need to move down a ring size and to do so you should try to go 24/7 for about 10 days. Then swap out the rings.

I’m curious to know why you take it off for work? I started in the 3000 and found it to be slightly too obvious for street wear unless I had a long, untucked t-shirt. I'm not tall (5'9'') and in pretty good shape (within 10 pounds of my college playing weight) so anything that protrudes too far is a bit too noticeable on my frame. The 6000s also fits better when wearing jeans since it doesn't extend down into the crotch as far.

Just a thought.

[wishful4]

I think it’s worth wondering out loud if your base ring is too large/loose.

The same thought had occurred to me. After returning home from an unlocked trip into town, I decided to downsize my base ring from 1 7/8 in to 1 3/4 in for the overnight and today. As of this morning, I have to admit that it is much more comfortable. We'll see how today goes. Don't know why I did not try this earlier. Thanks, Edgewood, for that suggestion.

[TwistedMister]

I started in the 3000 and found it to be slightly too obvious for street wear unless I had a long, untucked t-shirt. I'm not tall (5'9'') and in pretty good shape (within 10 pounds of my college playing weight) so anything that protrudes too far is a bit too noticeable on my frame.

LOL, I *am* tall, and very thin- I feel the need for an untucked shirt too, I think the protrusion is *highly* noticeable...seems that way to me anyway.

[Edgewood]

Yeah, every little bit helps with the protrusion problem. Just today I'm trying the smallest spacer. Hope it works for me.

My KH made the comment once that "it looks like there's something a little extra going on down there". I've only caught one person checking out my crotch and that was a very pleasant looking woman in the supermarket. I smiled... and then quickly strained against my tube.

[poor]

Coming back to the temprature aspect; given that plastic is an insulator, is there a greater problem with metal denialware?

[Locked by LRC]

Coming back to the temprature aspect; given that plastic is an insulator, is there a greater problem with metal denialware?

What I have found is the metal seems to stay warmer than the plastic. When LRC would remove the plastic it always felt, well, like plastic. When she removes the metal she is always aware of how warm it feels.

Just making an educated guess here but... Plastic doesn't have the molecular capability to retain heat, metal does. Does this make any sense?

[Tom Allen]

@MIG -

You might consider picking up a cock ring the same size as the cuff ring that you normally wear for your CB6k, and simply wearing that all or most of the time. It might stretch your scrotum enough so that the cold mornings are not as uncomfortable.

I glued the CB3k style hinged ring into a solid unit, and wear that most days, even when we aren't playing with chastity. Personally, I recommend using this arrangement for a cuff ring anyway, because it's inherently stronger (and IMO, more comfortable) than the eared 3 piece cuff now sold with the 6k.