Teased & Denied Keyholder

[Rocky]

Interesting. My wife wanted to do that but has turned into an orgasm junkie instead. Then again she is facing surgery that will take her two months to recover from with no sex allowed for at least that long so I think she wants to do as much as possible before then. Good luck.

[CuriousGeorge51]

@EDAS! I feel like you did a pretty good job of describing what I feel about being locked up. To keep in that as you said "sky-high kind of sexual tension" and almost edging an orgasm at times is a high on its own. I was listening to a video on Huffpost Live and pulled this from the different people on his show. Pretty well sums it all up I think. And when you talked about the sexual pleasure you derive from not having an orgasm is, at least in your mind, close to what women feel with multiple orgasms though not the same, I think the best way I can describe them are dry orgasms. Not the same but damn good even so. The following excepts do I good job I think of summing up Male Chastity.

What is Male Chastity all about?
Excerpts Taken From Huffpost Live
(Bella Sultana bellSultana.com), (Brian Maylan - writer), (Tom_Van_Allen), (Jason Yates – CBX Male Chastity)
Male Chastity increases receptiveness to what your partner really wants. So Instead of being so selfish or driven to what a male wants to do, he is more driven to do what the female wants him to do.
Now it’s scary because when a guy understands that this is something he is interested in, he has to open that door up to his partner.
Male Chastity is an immersive experience. When a guy is psychologically ready for it, and brave enough to hand his key over to someone, then he is in a different mindset. Although it can be irritating and uncomfortable when you first wear a Chastity Device, you are still in the mindset of being in chastity. Since it is still definitely hard, you have to start out a little bit at a time. When a guy is ready to serve his woman, he will be psychologically ready to wear it.
Sometimes a male will come to me (Bella Sultana) and say he feels like he is not his best and needs to be better and wants to know how to train. So when a guy comes to a woman and says, I need to be put in chastity, the woman should be very excited because he wants to be a better version of himself and he is asking her to take the reins.
Often times when they are not so focused on themselves, men can focus on the things that their partner is looking for. Sometimes people do not even listen when they are just running around free. They do not even listen to the things that you want. In our society there are many successful men who just like to let go when they go home and let their woman take control. They like to be edged. They like to be keyed and denied. Keyed and Denial is one of the biggest things in chastity.
“Male chastity is not actually about celibacy; it’s a form of erotic play, and chastity devices are, paradoxically, sex toys that will actually enhance one’s arousal.” (Tom_Van_Allen)
Some of it is about being able to relinquish control in a sexual way, so as you are denying yourself you are inevitably thinking about when you finally can get the device off, like dieting only for your cheat day.
When you give away the key you are thinking what is the partner going to do with the key and you are thinking about when she is going to be let her pet out, but that’s the idea.
Some of the techniques are giving your pet assignments to edging themselves or to tease them by taking your clothes off or have some type of sexual interaction by him having oral with her or playing with a toy but he will get no relief.

[longing4it]

For what it's worth, I think it's a fabulous idea. It's bold. It's open minded. It's experimental. It's sensitive (and how).

"Less" power to you. Really!