Night Time Lockup

[mistressgill]

I am keyholder to my husband, which I have done for about three years.

I became keyholder at his request. It took him several years to convince me to try it and about a year into it to begin to enjoy it. I now enjoy it immensely and wonder why it took me so long to decide to play.

At first, I kept him locked 24/7, for up to two weeks at a time. there were long intervals between some of the lockup periods. Recently, we have started to do it differently.

He is now responsible for keeping the devices and has a key to all of them. When I want him locked, I tell him to lock himself each night, before we go to bed (until further notice). This keeps him under control when naked in bed with me.

During the daytime, I let him free. I know he will not cheat by masturbating, as he really want this game and never knows when he will get his orgasm, so he will never risk compromising that, however frustrated he feels. This eradicates hygiene and potential irritation problems and allows him freedom to work etc during the day.

He remains symbolically locked during the day and the knowledge that he must put the device on before bed seems to excite him as much as being locked up. Sometimes, I add a token to emphasise his locked status, by having him wear a pair of my panties and a bra underneath his clothing, which I think works on his mind more powerfully than a device, particularly if I pull his bra strap occasionally and laugh at him.

[Len51]

My wife started me off like that. Only locked when we were apart which was night and when she left the house. I too had the keys on me. Once the urge to masturbate passed my wife wanted me locked up 24/7. I usually remove my device in the morning for a quick clean up and then it goes back on again. The reason for staying locked up all the time has nothing to do with masturbation control or even symbolic. Staying locked 24/7 denies my penis of all sensation except that of the device. It rubs against me and arouses me during the day. It limits erections and makes my penis very sensitive to my wife's touch. Plus I cannot even see my own penis as my Holy Trainer V2 is white.

Many of us also start to feel "naked" without our devices on. I began to experience that and felt more at ease wearing it. It is short of like you feel when you wear something all the time like a ring, watch, underwear, etc. and then stop wearing it. You become aware of its absence. It also provides my wife with the opportunity to remind me of who has control of my penis. If I hold my own keys and stay unlocked for long periods of time, I start to feel like I am the one in control, not my wife. Sort of feel that I am self locking and really do not need my wife to participate in my chastity at all.

Now she can cup my device and ask me how her penis is doing. Locked up makes me feel more under her control than not locked up or having easy access to the keys. I feel it heightens the whole experience and not just symbolically but in reality. I would say the absence of regular sensation to my penis makes our teasing sessions more intense. I now long to be touched there. The skin is more sensitive since it is well protected by a slick plastic sheath so that it no longer rubs against my underwear or feels breezes. I also learned that I often touched it throughout the course of a day without realizing it, until I could no longer do so. There is a marked difference for me between being locked and unlocked. I even got used to wearing my HT when I leave my house. It is just like wearing anything else and if I go out without it, I feel its absence and miss its comfort.

[sls01234]

My wife feels once its on it needs to stay on.

[Tame Lion]

Mine stays on 24/7 and only comes off for teasing or situations where I could be discovered: medical exams, airports, etc. It's much easier on both of us that way and I always know I am under her sexual control.

[wishful4]

My KH/spouse keeps it fairly simple. I am to wear it at all times at home including overnight. Absolutely no unlocked shower time. She usually directs me to remove it if we are going somewhere together unless it is a very short trip. Her rules have solved the most persistent problem, my excessive self pleasuring. My biggest problem currently, as I approach 30 days since my last full O, is persistent erection attempts in bed at night as we snuggle together. She likes to spoon and hold hands which causes me to strain against the new smaller cage. She won't admit it, but I think she enjoys my distress a bit.

[MrCage]

I am locked all the time too. She holds the key on a necklace. That's what KH do. I don't understand why you would be able to Hold your own key. But we r all different. Now that I have been locked for almost a year, whenever it is off, I cannot keep my hands off myself. Mrs Cage knows that and uses it to her advantage. If I held the key, it would be totally different. Forgive the pun, but morning wood IS the hardest part of this lifestyle.

[Linus]

Night time, day time or any other time is same for me
My KH wife has sealed my lock post with adhesive on November 4, 2014
She simply does not want to unlock me for any reason
Fortunately I do not need to remove my cage for cleaning, so that also is not an issue

[nzhubby]

Only 3 weeks into mc and by mutual agreement I have been under lock 24\7 - except for when she wants to play with him, which is fairly often However, this by no means results in orgasm for me - in fact orgasm for me seems less and less likely as time goes by. That's fine by me...15 years of selfish sex by me and I can't help but feel its her turn