Is teasing better than orgasms?

[Locked by LRC]

Personally I have no choice LRC will tell me before she goes to sleep to put the cage back on.

After a full orgasm I think it's natural for most men to have a period of change. That's why the ruined and abandoned orgasm seems to be popular with chastity. The release is there but the full satisfaction isn't.

When I'm allowed a full orgasm it's about 3-5 days before I get ramped up again. With a ruined or abandoned its may be as soon as the next evening. For us, LRC loves to do the abandoned and a full orgasm is a treat. We're both happy with this.

[belocked]

After being teased, denied and locked for a period of time, when your KH allows you to cum does this make you lose all feelings of playing the game again for a few days?

Absolutely, and it affects us both. I lock up again only when my KH says so, and it's always been after a few days as my desire is lower and she doesn't seem so interested after a good O.

[TwistedMister]

Ok, here is a question for you guys from a KH.

After being teased, denied and locked for a period of time, when your KH allows you to cum does this make you lose all feelings of playing the game again for a few days? I am asking bc i would like to know if this is normal or just my sub. We have only been playing for a couple of months, off and on, and this has happened.

Also, to give you some insight, we didn't play for about 24 hours and I felt a huge let down or drop in my libido, too. I realized how much I enjoy playing. The sense of power and the rush of seeing his manhood locked up and under my control is an amazing euphoric feeling for me.

I used to be that way, but I have found that now, after being denied for a long period, one orgasm is not enough to completely eliminate all arousal (especially if it is a 'ruined orgasm'). I no longer experience this 'let down' of which others speak. Often, I can be easily aroused again within a very short time, and lately, by the next day I am almost guaranteed to be nearly as horny as if I hadn't had any orgasm at all...especially if my KH makes sure that I am re-locked *immediately* after being allowed to cum.

Being +50, I'm not a spring chicken anymore and I found this increased arousal potential interesting. I don't know how I would be if I were completely drained by multiple orgasms in a [relatively] short period of time- I suspect that there might be a 'drop', but I doubt that I'm going to find out any time soon

[locked4her55]

After being teased, denied and locked for a period of time, when your KH allows you to cum does this make you lose all feelings of playing the game again for a few days? I am asking bc i would like to know if this is normal or just my sub.

I don't ever remember having the feeling that I wanted a break in the game after being released and having an orgasm. If anything I prefer to be placed back in my CD right after the event. This wasn't always the case but lately when I am allowed out for either T&D or an O I am expected to lock back up right away.

Doesn't give me a whole lot of time to think of anything but being horny.

[maxANDsue]

Teasing can last for hours but an orgasm is over with in a few seconds. So I think teasing is better but orgasms from time to time, are necessary. It brings closure to al the teasing and provides me with a reason to remain chaste for my wife.

[Her-sub-in-training]

Longest I've been denied is 6 days. I definitely didn't turn down cumming but I was actually hoping to be made to wait longer bc I was REALLY wanting to cum by then & in a super horny state. The point where it goes from self control to being controlled... Otherwise, I'd cum almost everyday. It does start to become a little routine & goal oriented. Being left wanting more is a nice, new sensation.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

Ok, here is a question for you guys from a KH.

After being teased, denied and locked for a period of time, when your KH allows you to cum does this make you lose all feelings of playing the game again for a few days? I am asking bc i would like to know if this is normal or just my sub. We have only been playing for a couple of months, off and on, and this has happened.

Also, to give you some insight, we didn't play for about 24 hours and I felt a huge let down or drop in my libido, too. I realized how much I enjoy playing. The sense of power and the rush of seeing his manhood locked up and under my control is an amazing euphoric feeling for me.

I'm not sure about playing the game as I wasn't locked right after orgasm but the emotional high didn't come back until she gave me a ruined orgasm and allowed me to clean up. The following night I couldn't sleep I was so horny , about 3 am we both were awake she allowed me to orally give her an orgasm which made me even hornier . At that point I was told I could lock myself up . I did and slept good till my normal wake up time . Today has been good my emotional horny high is back . All of these events happened within a week after 88 days of denial . All I can say is I am still confused , but happy again now .

I can say being locked put my mind at ease and takes away the temptation to do something I really don't want to do anymore , as that is why I confessed to my problem and asked for help .

[EDAS]

For me personally, the answer to this question is a resounding: yes! I do prefer the teasing, the edging to the actual orgasm.

I do not wear a cage, but have remained without an orgasm for periods of up to three months, despite my having fucked and masturbating during the whole of those three months.

My aim is never to come again. But accidents do happen, alas.

[Tame Lion]

I still like orgasms. Teasing is great too. But eventually, I do want to ejaculate. Of course, if you are practicing enforced chastity, doesn't that mean that you want to orgasm, and your keyholder controls if and when? If you just don't want to come, isn't that abstinence?

[grubber]

I still like orgasms. Teasing is great too. But eventually, I do want to ejaculate. Of course, if you are practicing enforced chastity, doesn't that mean that you want to orgasm, and your keyholder controls if and when? If you just don't want to come, isn't that abstinence?

I used to love orgasms but love the aching and denial so much more now. I am so glad that my wife decided on her own as we have grown to to agree to permanent orgasm denial. I agree that just not wanting to come just for that sake could be called abstinence.

For my wife and I it is different. She has always had discomfort with PIV so she enjoys not worrying about it. I have always orgasmed so fast that sex was over far too quickly.

With no orgasms and great T&D from my wife while caged or not has brought me to sexual heights that can't be put into words and it's there all the time. Sometimes it aches so bleeping strong that I can't sit still. Just the feelings I get when my wife walks into the room are amazing. So stimulating throughout my entire body. An orgasm is just a couple of squirts then let down after.

My wife shares these feelings although a little different. She is completely sexual intimidation free. Totally relaxed, no pressure and enjoying her feelings to the fullest. She loves the new me and does not ever want to go back to the old ways.

I can honestly say that I don't ever want to orgasm again and neither does my wife want me to. What we share now is too special to lose.

So yeah, I love orgasms, but teasing with permanent denial and all the other good stuff like when we first met is the only way for us now.

I think everybody should try pushing their limits far beyond what they consider a long period of denial at least once to be able to experience these feelings while involved in chastity. It's a real eye opener.