Yes indeed I can honestly attest to the fact that have not yet actually consumated my marraige to my wife of twenty years. Strange but true. I still live in hope though.Tom Allen wrote:The whole 20 years, Dave?davedingy wrote:Hello all I am Dave I'm 51 years old and have been married to Mandy for twenty years during which time I have been kept in blissful chastity by her.
"Hello world" thread
Re: "Hello world" thread
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello!McSwitchy wrote:Hi everyone!
I'm a switch from the California Bay Area. I enjoy both receiving and "giving" chastity experiences and have had a variety of devices over the years. Currently I'm using a custom Lori's tube with an "ampallang-like" security pin that goes through two piercings in my foreskin. I have a Neosteel Arch belt that doesn't fit (still hacking on it to find the best dimensions) and I'm working on a foreskin-friendly device with Chris from Steelwerks.
I have tried two versions of Pablo69's 3D-printed device and am looking forward to a metal version
In an attempt to test different dimensions for the steelwerks device, I've made a 3D model that is printable with a hobby 3D printer, below is a rendering. If there is interest I would be happy to post the design files.
McS
You can use some file sharing service. Or Dropbox for example. Where you can Share files with everybody. Or we can make a little deal - I'll give you my mail and will share 3d models of your device from my dropbox.
Re: "Hello world" thread (sengasboy)
I have stated a couple of times that she was not enthused, but that changed, BIG time.
We have become sooo loveydovey so intimate that it's like we are new lovers. We kiss, we hug,we can't keep our hands off of each other.
We have rediscovered kissing. OMG , long, slow,intimate,French kissing that arouses, makes her hot,and makes my cage full. Really fills my cage.
She loves me so much,that she likes to pleasure me. She feels guilty denying me but that is changing also. I have told her many times that her pleasure is my pleasure. The rule now is that I am NOT to cum unless specifically told to. I have a good story about that , that i will relate if there is interest. I have so much to tell I can't get it all out fast enough. I'm not sure how detailed I should be here, but, it's so good to have someone to tell that understands. I'd like to relate some of her adventures in my chastity. Let me know if I should.
I had my first 13 day lock up,then 6,then 12, I am on day 16 of my new record. Today is going to be my day. Every nerve in my body is tingling. Senga told me this morning that when we get home tonight we have several chores to do. We're going away for a few days so the car has to be packed,ironing done,I have something to do in the garage, dog walked etc. etc. THEN I will be allowed out. Not before. So excited. She is SO sexy.
Am in the right thread?
We have become sooo loveydovey so intimate that it's like we are new lovers. We kiss, we hug,we can't keep our hands off of each other.
We have rediscovered kissing. OMG , long, slow,intimate,French kissing that arouses, makes her hot,and makes my cage full. Really fills my cage.
She loves me so much,that she likes to pleasure me. She feels guilty denying me but that is changing also. I have told her many times that her pleasure is my pleasure. The rule now is that I am NOT to cum unless specifically told to. I have a good story about that , that i will relate if there is interest. I have so much to tell I can't get it all out fast enough. I'm not sure how detailed I should be here, but, it's so good to have someone to tell that understands. I'd like to relate some of her adventures in my chastity. Let me know if I should.
I had my first 13 day lock up,then 6,then 12, I am on day 16 of my new record. Today is going to be my day. Every nerve in my body is tingling. Senga told me this morning that when we get home tonight we have several chores to do. We're going away for a few days so the car has to be packed,ironing done,I have something to do in the garage, dog walked etc. etc. THEN I will be allowed out. Not before. So excited. She is SO sexy.
Am in the right thread?
Re: "Hello world" thread ( Sengasboy)
One thing that I've learned ,in my limited experience, is that a lot of patience is required. In order to achieve the level of arousal that one has after 14 days, it takes 2 weeks lol. I of course want to do everything all at once.patience patience. I have to let her catch up to me I ve been reading about this much longer than she's been interested. Patience ,patience.
Once, after an orgasm, (which was beautiful by the way) I was slightly disappointed, because my horneyness was diminished, not gone, but lowered. I was actually happy to get locked up again.
Senga is now very much into the game. She is learning to love the power. Planning the evening, activities keeps her horney all day. When time comes to carry out her plans,she's usually way over the top. She has had at least one bone jarring orgasm almost every day, with few exceptions ,for 2 months now. I think she feels,as I have explained to her, it's not 12 days of denial for me, but 12 days of forplay .Very hot.
She has read Lucy Fairborn' book "male chastity " ( I have not,cause I don't want to influence her decisions).
Still day 16. I'm jumping out of my skin.
Once, after an orgasm, (which was beautiful by the way) I was slightly disappointed, because my horneyness was diminished, not gone, but lowered. I was actually happy to get locked up again.
Senga is now very much into the game. She is learning to love the power. Planning the evening, activities keeps her horney all day. When time comes to carry out her plans,she's usually way over the top. She has had at least one bone jarring orgasm almost every day, with few exceptions ,for 2 months now. I think she feels,as I have explained to her, it's not 12 days of denial for me, but 12 days of forplay .Very hot.
She has read Lucy Fairborn' book "male chastity " ( I have not,cause I don't want to influence her decisions).
Still day 16. I'm jumping out of my skin.
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello World,
One month ago I locked my husband of 30 years up in chastity. As such I am now his "keyholder". Eager to learn more about the male chastity lifestyle. Sincerely, Lady Ann
One month ago I locked my husband of 30 years up in chastity. As such I am now his "keyholder". Eager to learn more about the male chastity lifestyle. Sincerely, Lady Ann
Re: "Hello world" thread
Welcome. Husband of 40+ years here who just started chastity 12 months ago. We had a few bumps in the road when we started and my wife felt like being my KH was a chore. We got rid of all the rules and replaced them with one rule; my wife makes the rules and can change them, add them or remove them anytime she wants without advance notice. This allows her to be my KH as she feels like at the time.Lady Ann wrote:Hello World,
One month ago I locked my husband of 30 years up in chastity. As such I am now his "keyholder". Eager to learn more about the male chastity lifestyle. Sincerely, Lady Ann
The hardest part for her was withholding my orgasms for longer than a month. She felt as if she was being cruel after hearing my moans of sexual frustration during our sex nights. Now she does not want me to ever have a full orgasm, just ruined ones. I was able to talk her into one orgasm a year because I made it sound like it would be worst for me to be reminded of what I was missing.
My wife both an ebook titled A Keyholders Handbook and found it to be good as it written for the average wife, not a dominatrix. You can search for it on Amazon.com. She went from catering to my needs first to apply domestic discipline and telling me instead of asking me to do things. We had a trail run for a year after which we would decide to make it our lifestyle or not. It is now our lifestyle and my wife had me order a custom chastity device.
Good luck, take baby steps as men tend to want to jump in with both feet, and have fun. It will only work if both of you have fun. If you feel like you are just doing it for him, you will tire of it quickly and look upon it as more work for you.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
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locked4her55
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Re: "Hello world" thread (sengasboy)
Welcome Sengasboy to the Forum.Sengasboy wrote:Am in the right thread?
This thread is the place for new members to say hello and tell us a bit about themselves.
You might want to continue telling us more over on the Journey thread of the Forum.
Happy to have you with us.
Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
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CaptainJasper
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello and Merry Christmas to you all!
I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been playing around with chastity for about 4 years now, although finding an actual key holder my age is proving to be very difficult! The fact I don't drive and am very involved in my studies doesn't help. I'm wearing a cb6000 because at 15 it was all I could afford. I'm hoping to upgrade in the future, but with my part time job it doesn't seem promising. I kinda have a key holder but he doesn't actually know it... (I'll explain in a later post).
I hope I have proved my existence enough and you welcome me with open arms and closed locks!
I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been playing around with chastity for about 4 years now, although finding an actual key holder my age is proving to be very difficult! The fact I don't drive and am very involved in my studies doesn't help. I'm wearing a cb6000 because at 15 it was all I could afford. I'm hoping to upgrade in the future, but with my part time job it doesn't seem promising. I kinda have a key holder but he doesn't actually know it... (I'll explain in a later post).
I hope I have proved my existence enough and you welcome me with open arms and closed locks!
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hank4spank
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Re: "Hello world" thread
howdy - very new to chastity, and here to learn.
I'm looking to buy first piece and found the forum by a google search.
Very happy this exists as I've already learned a lot from the little I've read.
Will post when I make my first purchase.
Thank you to all the guys who have posted personal experiences for us newbies.
I'm looking to buy first piece and found the forum by a google search.
Very happy this exists as I've already learned a lot from the little I've read.
Will post when I make my first purchase.
Thank you to all the guys who have posted personal experiences for us newbies.
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hey. Real person here. Mostly signing up to access info about pedro's 3d print stuff and maybe ask some questions about a custom size. Maybe actually participate in the forum later when/if I ever find a device that actually fits me and doesn't cause edema, excruciating pain, or just randomly falls off. 
(Yeah, I'm an extreme grower/shrinker.)
(Yeah, I'm an extreme grower/shrinker.)