What does it feel like to be a keyholder?

Chastehusband · Post by **Chastehusband** » Sat Oct 23, 2010 7:49 am

So after the initial phase of getting used to being a keyholder, overcoming the newness, what does it feel like to be a keyholder and have that amount of power and control over your husband/significant other?

Dev · Post by **Dev** » Sat Oct 23, 2010 12:47 pm

Maybe I'm still new at this, but I don't really feel much of a sense of power and control. We've always been good, fair partners in our marriage and I feel like chastity is just strengthening that partnership. He's always been attentive but I am finding he's even more attentive, which I like. But I am working harder on being kinder--thanking him for little things that he does, noticing more. Plus I've been busy buying him presents! He seems a little surprised at being the beneficiary of so much stuff.

The one place where I am discovering I am exerting more control is with regard to wearing his device. I definitely want it on him as much as possible and he is getting the message. He took it off Thursday evening (with my permission) because he had a little sore spot. He put it back on this morning without my even having to ask. I did ask him to wear the base ring last night as a sort of quasi-cock ring and he did (all night).

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Post by **Celtic Queen** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 3:44 pm

I love being my hub's keyholder. It makes me feel like I am holding his sexuality securely and lovingly for both of us.

Post by **Sandy** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 3:40 pm

I would love to here more feedback on this. Trying to figure out what I want...

Post by **Tom Allen** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 6:34 pm

Sandy wrote:I would love to here more feedback on this. Trying to figure out what I want...

Here's an old blog post on what my wife enjoys:
http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2009/0 ... k-locking/

You've been added to the Keyholder's Foums, where you may find more discussion.

As you read blogs, articles, and forums, don't think that there's only one true way that you need to do this. It doesn't have to be a 24/7/365 activity.

And ask yourself, what would you *like* to get out of this?

locked4her55 · Post by **locked4her55** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 8:13 pm

Sandy wrote:I would love to here more feedback on this. Trying to figure out what I want...

How about having a more attentive husband for one thing.

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