Negative effects

[Grizzly228]

Hi. I've been fantasizing about chastity and denial and ruined orgasms for years and only really got into it about a year ago. Around the time of my first chastity cage I noticed I began having erectile dysfunction when with a female. I was on antidepressants for a while and blamed it on a side effect of them. I was given trial cialis and Viagra. Both which helped but had their own side effects. I had a hot Asian gf who almost dumped me due to erectile dysfunction. We broke up and I went back to chastity play. While dating again ED popped up again. wtf. So I finally found a gf who does the chastity play with me and voila; ED again. I have to say I believe the time spent in the cage has affected my mental or physical ability to become erect with a real woman.

It's been a few weeks without chastity play and I was able to get morning woods and unexpected erections and even give my woman 4 orgasms in one session before I finished. Maybe chastity play hurts me.

Anyone else have similar issues? I would love to continue on and off chastity play but not at that cost.

[locked4her55]

Sorry to hear of your issues. That sucks.

Been doing this almost 5 years now being locked up on average 85% of the time and at almost 60 yo I haven't experienced any problems becoming erect when released.

As I get older I notice I don't remain erect for as long as I used too.

[Grizzly228]

It sucks cuz I'm 35 and it's been happening for the last year with different partners and makes me feel like crap. Hopefully a happy medium will come up (no pun intended) where I can have my cake and eat it too. Until then I might take a break

[Michele]

We had an issue of the mental block kind very early on and he could get hard for a couple days. Once we relaxed and stopped the mental stress from it all it was good to go. sometimes after a long lock up it will take longer for hubby to come to attention but he hasn't had any ED problems. I seems to be a mental thing for you too. So you get attempted erections in your cage?

[Atone]

Hopefully a happy medium will come up (no pun intended) where I can have my cake and eat it too.

I thought that was what ruined orgasms were for.

[Lockedchef]

Never really had negative effects. When I first started this with her I would get so excited upon release I would barely last more then a minute when out. I've gotten use to being more sensitive overall now and am pretty much back to normal. If anything I find my erections stronger, last longer, and easier to maintain. Two weeks locked up and I am ready and at attention the moment she wants me.

[WifeIsVanilla]

My experience is similar to Lockedchef's, i.e. better erections and better sex, and I haven't even made it to a full 2 weeks yet.

[TwistedMister]

Never really had negative effects. When I first started this with her I would get so excited upon release I would barely last more then a minute when out...Two weeks locked up and I am ready and at attention the moment she wants me.

Same here, no trouble with erections...if anything, they can come on too quickly, which can be sort of a problem if she wants the cage off.

Sensitivity can be an issue- she has to be very careful if she doesn't want me to cum, because I'm on a 'hair-trigger'. I'm not currently locked but I've been experimenting with self-denial. Last week we had an opportunity to play and she was just barely touching me while I was pleasuring her, I felt an orgasm coming on and clamped down on it- there was no external ejaculation to speak of, but I lost my erection afterward. After she got off she started sucking me and I ejaculated before I even had time to get hard again- this surprised her and I had to explain that an erection wasn't strictly necessary in order for a man to have an orgasm and ejaculate.

[Lockedchef]

It is funny this came up right now because like I posted earlier the usual happened. She has been sick and usual busy work schedules have kept us from having much alone time together. However right when I hit the 14 day mark she surprised me with a release yesterday and as always made my wait well worth the while. I barely got my Jailbird off before I would have been too big to remove it. Needless to say more then a good time was had by both several times since then. Nothing negative about it what so ever. Even after cumming a few times I'm still half hard ready for more.

Only side I effect I would say I have is withdraws from my cage. I'm not dying to put it back on or anything but after continuous wear for two weeks straight it feels like something is missing. I've had the JB for about 2-3 months now and haven't had it off for more then 48 hours straight since getting it. I'm sure I will be happily relocked again by time I go back to work tomorrow which is fine by me and will give me something to look forward to soon.

[WifeIsVanilla]

I never want to go back in right after an orgasm. It's always at least a few hours before i relock, sometimes a day or two. But, after a couple of days, i start to miss it.