Our Adventure

[luckyboy]

Hi All,

Well, we're certainly took the leap this time. After a few months of playing with chastity I took a new approach and it's working better than I ever expected. Here's our story so far.

My wife and I had our first date nineteen years ago in August. As you might imagine, we've grown quite accustomed to each other over the years. Our daughter came into the picture five years ago as well.

This Jan I broke the news that I wanted to give this chastity kink a go- and she said yes! Great fun, but I might have overwhelmed her with rules and suggestions. So we took some time off.

For August I told her I wanted her to be in control of our sexuality and my orgasms for the entire month. She could demand attention, her favorite backrubs, finger and oral service, when ever she wanted. I said it would be "nice" to have a release about once a week. We could apply the 'device", a CB 6000, on Fri to Mons, to avoid the wear at work situation.

This time, she's really enjoying herself. She's demanding attention and leaving me locked up which drives me crazy. When I get lucky enough for release, she told me that I had to touch myself while she watches and tell her what I fantasize about.
Once time she allowed me a full orgasm by thrusting myself on her butt as long as I cleaned it up myself, and you know what that means!

So- I am truly lucky guy!

My question to you guys is, what is your experience of combining orgasm control and denial with periods of being unlocked? And part two, what is your experience of orgasm control denial without complicated "rules and games"? My wife hates anything in this kink that she feels is "work" or complicated rules. Do you just let her be in charge go with the "whenever she feels it like it" approach to your releases?

We're very happy with our new approach to sexuality and have extended it for the month of Sept. I'll post in a few weeks, but I'm also curious to your experiences as well.

Lucky Boy

[luckyboy]

Oh I forgot to add her rules. They are pretty simple. No touching her body without asking permission and no begging for sexual attention. Infractions are punished by a two week wait for any type of release.

It's really hard to get with the program about the ask before touching rule. Every time we hug I need to ask permission before giving her butt a nice squeeze. She loves the control though. I think these two rules just really make her feel respected and in control. So far, they have kept our fun game from becoming a burden for her and she's really starting to become a devious mistress. She likes making me squirm, so I'm happy too!

[locked4her55]

Every time we hug I need to ask permission before giving her butt a nice squeeze.

No permission need here. I'm usually in trouble if I don't take the initiative. My wife loves her butt squeezed.

[LockedandLoved]

The unlocked periods are tough for me sometimes.

95% of the time I have no desire to masturbate when I am unlocked.

The other 5% of the time an urge hits me like a tidal wave and I have to get off.

When locked I don't have those urges very often for some reason and if I do he JB reminds me it's not up to me.