What do you miss most when you are unlocked?

[LockedandLoved]

The Jailbird is currently away getting resized so I have been thinking a good bit about what I miss when it's gone.

I really miss the symbolism of it. It's become a constant reminder of my commitment to my KH. The commitment is still here when I am not wearing it but it's not quite the same.

What about you? What do you miss most when you aren't locked up?

[HisDuty]

I miss the little rituals. I get locked up each morning and then hand KH the key. Before bed, she hands back the key. These rituals form excellent bookends to the day.

[Schwink]

I miss just having an erection and not having it tug on your testicles.

[Grizzly228]

Don't really miss it as mine tends to get uncomfortable or I get worried someone will see it. Much more calm without it. However I do miss the "held" feeling, like someone is teasingly holding it yet still not getting enough sensation to do more than leak precum. So I do miss the dripping after a few short days. Without the cage it takes a lot longer to reach that feeling even with a lot of t&d

[mellyshubby]

The only time I'm unlocked is when we are not playing the "game". Then I get blowjobs or PIV daily. After a week of orgasms, I start to miss the thrill of her being in control. I guess what I miss most is the constant horniness and dripping that being caged brings about.

[locked4her55]

I miss the encased feeling and the control my wife has over that part of my body.

If it were off I know I would do something I later would regret.

[danj]

Well, just coming off a very long break I can say I miss the submissive feelings and FLR like dynamics that seem to fade away when I'm not in chastity. I also miss the extra intimacy we seem to have when I'm kept chaste. No doubt my wife has more orgasms when I'm in chastity, and I really miss those extra cums for her! Another thing I miss is the longing and intense energy that a week+ of chastity provides…I miss that, too.

ETA: I also miss this Forum…I don't stop in much during our breaks! I see a lot of new names…I'm a pretty old member here.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

[quote="danj"} I can say I miss the submissive feelings and FLR like dynamics that seem to fade away when I'm not in chastity. I also miss the extra intimacy we seem to have when I'm kept chaste. No doubt my wife has more orgasms when I'm in chastity, and I really miss those extra cums for her! Another thing I miss is the longing and intense energy that a week+ of chastity provides…I miss that, too.
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Same here but I also feel naked without the cage , the intensity of denial and emotional desires are far greater with the cage on. I also miss that feeling like she's holding me constantly definitely more submissive with cage on.

[B2Please]

I miss the overall comforting sensation, feeling especially close to her & dedicated. I miss the frequent low level arousal, and the overall excitement & adventure.
But we go in & out, trying different games. I've been better at giving her real control and letting her do it her way.

[CagedforHim]

Was recently unlocked for 4 consecutive days while on a trip (by far the longest unlocked period in several months), and feel SO much better now that I'm back in my cage. Strange, but over those 4 days I seemed to be more aware of NOT wearing my cage than I'm aware of the cage when I'm locked. Mentally I missed the enforced submission the most. It felt wrong to be freely allowed an erection without my KH's consent. Physically I missed the feeling of the cage constantly encapsulating me and restraining my erections, particularly in the morning.