Humiliation Ideas

[owned_sissy]

So first off, please don't take this as one of those posts I see all over the internet obviously written by a single guy, wherein he states his Mistress (imaginary) has ordered him to ask every single person on the internet for ideas on how to humiliate him.

My Wife and I got into this lifestyle around the beginning of this year, and our sex life has been white hot ever since, I just can't see us ever going back at this point. While we are relatively new to chastity, we've been involved in a wide variety of BDSM for around 8 years, always with me as the submissive. For me, humiliation has always been the largest part of any kink activity, ever since I was a teenager, I've been excited by the idea of being embarrassed and degraded, I just can't get enough of it, whether it be verbal, private or public humiliation.

So tomorrow night, Mistress has planned our first in-role date night since becoming involved with chastity, we're planning to go to dinner, then a bar afterwards. I know she's been planning it for several days, but I'm not privy to any of the details. All that being said, like may others on this site no doubt, she sometimes does feel pressured to come up with new ideas, even though I constantly try to reinforce the fact that I really couldn't be happier at this point. Women's guilt I guess.

We do have a contract, and when in role there are only two hard limits, no sexual contact with other men for either of us, though we both love to talk about fantasy cuckold stuff, it would never really happen. She will occasionally chat guys up and text me that some guy at the mall is hitting on her, and she can tell he has a huge cock.....love that stuff. The other limit is nothing that will cause permanent harm. Other than that, she pretty much has, and fully utilizes, carte blanche.

We will be traveling to a restaurant and bar about 45 minutes from the house late in the evening. Let me be clear, that while I am very turned on by the idea of public humiliation, I'm not into overtly exposing others to it as I'm a father as well, and wouldn't stand for it. So I'd love to hear any subtle ideas you guys have for public humiliation during our much anticipated date night, planning to show Mistress all your responses. Thanks!

[TwistedMister]

After 8 years, you must know of more than a few things already- butt plugs, vibrating or non, remote control vibrating and e-stim devices, women's under-garments worn under regular clothes, etc. Not easy for us to guess what you might not already know about...

She could have you wear an adult diaper while you are out...and lock your pants/zipper so there is no way for you to use a bathroom. More into pee play/urolagnia? She could have you go to the restroom with an empty glass, which you must fill and return to the table with...and drink it in front of everyone there. Alternatively, *she* could take an empty glass to the restroom and fill it for you...or have an accomplice fill it- you must guess if it is hers, or not (punishment later if you are wrong).

Along the same line, she could bring some saved semen...which she dumps into your drink for you to consume in front of everyone.

[Michele]

I know I'm excited for your date night hehe

[owned_sissy]

Thanks for the input, we've certainly done quite a few things with anal play, and I'm required to be in panties any time I'm caged, also in the contract. We recently purchased our first remote controlled toy, unfortunately it hasn't arrived yet. That said, I would imagine tonight will certainly involve my ass in some way. We haven't done much with diapers or urine, but your idea about bringing cum along is very intriguing. We'd certainly have to bring it with us, because I don't think there is a chance in hell I'll be cumming tonight.

Lady M, thanks for the cryptic response........

[Michele]

Lady M, thanks for the cryptic response........

Muahahahaha

[MrCage]

So what the hell happened? You can't keep us in suspense!

[grubber]

My wife likes to get me hard in my cage in public which takes little effort these days. Like this summer a few times when we had pool parties at our house. She does things like call me into the house to help her with the food, get me super aroused, then send me out to serve our friends. I am bulging when I serve them. The more embarrased I get, the longer I stay bulging.
The worst was when she had a bunch of her friends over for swim. I was there to serve them. She kept arousing me the whole time. There was no doubt they were noticing. Every time I heard them laughing outside at the pool, I was wondering what about. After, my wife told me that my bulge came up in conversation but wouldn't tell me about it.

[TwistedMister]

So what the hell happened? You can't keep us in suspense!

Yes, do tell.

[owned_sissy]

Sorry, it was not my intention to leave you guys hanging, but date night turned out to be a bit of a dud, and it was my fault. My Wife/Mistress starting setting up date night the Monday before it took place, so I had a total of five days to get incredibly overexcited about it. She was constantly telling me that she had so many ideas, and that it was really going to blow my mind. I'll spare you the details, but when it didn't 100% meet my expectations, I got disappointed, and basically pouted. So bottom line, I ruined date night.

That said, we had a good discussion about it the following morning. She agreed that maybe she'd built it up a little bit too much, but more than that, I need to do better managing expectations. Hopefully that's the last time we'll need to have that discussion. Ultimately, I felt like an enormous asshole, because she has really expanded her horizons, and I don't want to do anything to tamp that down. In the end, we're going to try it again.

[Highlander1]

I am in a similar kind of situation but don't know if humiliation is exactly the right term for me as KH is in control of my appearance which can be worrying rather than totally humiliating but I would think just as exciting!