Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
- Mistress A slave
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Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
I ordered a Watchful Mistress two weeks ago with a three inch length tube, so it will have the single side bar. Does anyone have experience with this device? Is it secure in the aspect of touch while the device is on? Can I still pleasure myself to full satisfaction? I was formerly using the cb6000 so I'm accustomed to not being able to touch any part member.
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
Not sure about the security aspect of it but if it fits like a JB or CB 6000 , 3 inches is a really long tube.Mistress A slave wrote:I ordered a Watchful Mistress two weeks ago with a three inch length tube, so it will have the single side bar. Does anyone have experience with this device? Is it secure in the aspect of touch while the device is on? Can I still pleasure myself to full satisfaction? I was formerly using the cb6000 so I'm accustomed to not being able to touch any part member.
I say this as someone who had shortened his JB twice (considering a third time) and it's gotten more comfy each time.
Just food for thought
Trying to figure this out while keeping my sanity
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
I know 3 inches is long, and I have contemplated shorter but every time I measured flaccid (making sure the ruler is barely grazing my scrotum) I'm between 3 3/4 and 4. So I figured 3 was playing it safe. And also my cb6000 is 3 1/4 inches and I've always filled it.
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
I have the jailbird and the watchful mistress. The WM gives more of a "glove like" feeling, and I think it is a little more comfortable. I don't think you could get enough stimulation while wearing it to get anywhere near an orgasm.
If security means getting out, it isn't any more secure than the jailbird. I think any trapped ball device can be backed out of if you are flaccid enough. Our ribbon tether method solved that problem.
If security means getting out, it isn't any more secure than the jailbird. I think any trapped ball device can be backed out of if you are flaccid enough. Our ribbon tether method solved that problem.
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Securely locked 24/7 in either a Jail Bird or Watchful Mistress
Securely locked 24/7 in either a Jail Bird or Watchful Mistress
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
I'm mostly concerned with touch while the device is on. I have a habit of touching that area and my Mistress does not enjoy this very much. So I'm hoping the WM will enclose my member enough to prevent any self stimulation.
Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
Ribbon tether? Do tell.mellyshubby wrote:I have the jailbird and the watchful mistress. The WM gives more of a "glove like" feeling, and I think it is a little more comfortable. I don't think you could get enough stimulation while wearing it to get anywhere near an orgasm.
If security means getting out, it isn't any more secure than the jailbird. I think any trapped ball device can be backed out of if you are flaccid enough. Our ribbon tether method solved that problem.
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
Here is what I posted earlier describing our method to provide security. If you want to read the entire thread, I think it was called "Pulling out of a chastity device", on the general chat section.
My wife and I have a simple, cheap way to make my Jailbird "escape proof". No spikes, no piercings, no discomfort in any way. It changes the whole dynamic, and makes chastity play more fun for us.
You need to find a roll of thin vinyl marking tape that land surveyors use. It is about an inch wide, and has no adhesive. Cut off about 18" and then cut that lengthwise into 3 or 4 thin ribbons, each roughly 1/4 inch wide. For security, the key holder signs her name somewhere near the middle. Just before going into the cage, tie the ribbon around the middle of your cock using a double knot. Then, feed the ends of the ribbon into the cage as you go in. Tie another double knot onto the cage itself, after you are in. Trim off the excess ribbon so that it will be impossible to re-tie later. That's it.
We found that escape is very difficult, and re-entry even harder to accomplish without giving it away (all the tugging caused the knot to fail). I suppose it might be possible, if you were given enough tries to accomplish it. However, I immediately realized that the odds are against me being successful. So what really makes this system escape proof is the realization that if you try, you will probably be found out. Therefore, you don't even try.
My wife and I have a simple, cheap way to make my Jailbird "escape proof". No spikes, no piercings, no discomfort in any way. It changes the whole dynamic, and makes chastity play more fun for us.
You need to find a roll of thin vinyl marking tape that land surveyors use. It is about an inch wide, and has no adhesive. Cut off about 18" and then cut that lengthwise into 3 or 4 thin ribbons, each roughly 1/4 inch wide. For security, the key holder signs her name somewhere near the middle. Just before going into the cage, tie the ribbon around the middle of your cock using a double knot. Then, feed the ends of the ribbon into the cage as you go in. Tie another double knot onto the cage itself, after you are in. Trim off the excess ribbon so that it will be impossible to re-tie later. That's it.
We found that escape is very difficult, and re-entry even harder to accomplish without giving it away (all the tugging caused the knot to fail). I suppose it might be possible, if you were given enough tries to accomplish it. However, I immediately realized that the odds are against me being successful. So what really makes this system escape proof is the realization that if you try, you will probably be found out. Therefore, you don't even try.
Husband of MellyKH
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Re: Is the Watchful Mistress secure?
I also have both the JB and WM and I agree with all that mellyshubby said. My preference is the WM because of the feel and less access than the JB. Thought that it might be a little more challenging to keep clean but with a good paddle swap I've found it's no problem.
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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273