"Hello world" thread

[TwistedMister]

Hi I'm new here as you can see. This male chastity thing is a whole new world for me. I don't own a device yet, and have some questions about them that I hope I can learn about here.

Welcome. You have wisely chosen what may be the absolute very best forum on the planet for getting the straight dope to answer your questions.

[ChasteAlex]

Hello! I'm new to wearing a chastity device but have been fantasizing about it for a long time.

I'm here to explore where this world leads me and find my place.

I have a Bon4+ late model and it's been my first device, I've had fun wearing it but I'm looking for a better one.

[ronlocked]

Hi all, I am cuckold, and the wife and I have been considering chastity for a while. She recently decided that this is the route she wants to take. We are buying a Metal Worx, arriving in the mail in a few days. Hope to interact and learn a lot here.

[btim]

Hi, I'm new to the forum. I'm a gay submissive with a strong interest in chastity. I'm joining the forum because I have some questions about some physical discomfort I experience in chastity and I would like to find out if other chaste men are experiencing the same and if they have any tips.

I'll look for suitable area to post my question and hope it will be approved.

Thanks

[FreakManVA]

Completing the prerequisite introduction post here. Ubber noob in this area but we've already been evolving kinksters for several years now. We run a visual porn blog online (I will NOT shamelessly plug here out of respect) that you may or may not one day come across. I'm very submissive in the bedroom & somewhat submissive in our relationship already, she probably wouldn't want to take much credit for it but she has chilled me out & changed me a lot over the years we've been together. Although she may not perfectly identify or line up with the description of a fem dom (yet) she is in no way sexually submissive & she too has been evolving & growing into her own true reality just as I have.
I've been advancing through the construction industry my entire career life so lots of testosterone & lots of alpha male'ing & lots of taking control tend to dominate my work days. I hate being in control at home, I treat everyone the same when I'm in that mode (think construction, so it's not necessarily an appearance of grace). I do occasionally wind up disrespecting her verbally which leads to my own feelings of regret. I feel awful & tend to withdraw when I realize such indiscretions which leaves a gigantic void in our typical level of intimacy. Normally I struggle a great deal trying to get the train back on the tracks (so to speak) once some poor behavior derails us.
Male chastity has come up or been mentioned by either one of us more than once over the years. Just recently we'd looked at several device options & considered it more seriously. Then in my own typical fashion started doing some more research & non fiction reading on the subject. Now that we realize in more depth what it's all about I have to say I'm very sold & ready to commit. Actually we are Amazon addicts & I stumbled into a book & blog by Sara Jameson which ultimately steered us over here.
We're still seriously discussing this, absorbing as much information as we can about it & saving up for a device but I seriously doubt we're turning back now.
I have many questions still or lets say I'd like to know more by interacting with others that are similarly minded as a means of delving deeper into understanding all of this, not to sound like I'm walking around with a numbered list of questions per say.

[Michele]

Well hello there and welcome to our newest members! Happy to have you join us!

[lockedboy85]

Hello everybody!


My name is Andreas and i live in Europe. I´m 29 years old and started my bdsm lifestyle about 20 years ago. At that time it started, that i liked it to be tied up and gagged. I got so horny and i liked the feeling of it, that i can´t move or free myself if i like. So i learned alot about how it´s possible to tie myself up .

The problem that was slowly starting was, that i got always so horny, that i just started to jerk, after the o i wasn´t in the mood to finally close the handcuffs or other restraints around my hands, so i started to search for something that would prevent myself from touching me. At that time i didn´t knew anything about chastity belts. But i couldn´t found anything.

About 3 years ago i saw my first chastity belt on a picture in the internet and was extreme horny about it. So i started to built my own with a handcuff and a plastic waterpipe. With my first erection in that belt it was destroyed .
After that i bought the CS-100. But that belt is or better was a bit strange. I threw it into the scrap metal, because i wasn´t able to wear that belt. I had always pain somewhere and i got many open wounds with blood. But i tried it two years to get used to it but no way. I also changed many things but it didn´t got better. After that i thought that i was done with chastity, but i can´t just forget it, it always comes back.
So some time ago i bought the ironheart from steelworxx. That belt is great to wear. I also got a great idea: I mounted that "ballstrap" cb to my waistbelt i had from my CS-100. So the waistbelt and my two steelcables between my legs push the basering from my cb close to my body, so there is no room to pull out my cock to the backside. So i made my own "full belt style belt" out of my normal "ballstrap belt" .
If someone is interested in how i did this, i can write a "how to" with pictures, that isn´t hard to mount.

[williem61]

Hello everyone. Just replying so as not to be considered scrum. Haha.
I am currently in an FLR with my wife of 25 years. It has been a long journey to where
we are now, but we both have never been happier. I am not required
to wear a device, but use honor system. I get one orgasm a year at our anniversary, but I
am edged 4-5 times a week. Anyway it works for us. We are from the Philadelphia area.

[Tom Allen]

We run a visual porn blog online (I will NOT shamelessly plug here out of respect) that you may or may not one day come across.

As long as this isn't a pay-per-view site, mentioning a blog is fine. We have a few attention whor... err, bloggers who name drop or have the blog link in their signature block.

We try to avoid mentioning pay sites, but we're open-minded if they are chastity or OD/T&D related.

[FreakManVA]

We run a visual porn blog online (I will NOT shamelessly plug here out of respect) that you may or may not one day come across.

We try to avoid mentioning pay sites, but we're open-minded if they are chastity or OD/T&D related.

Well we're aren't here pulling for more followers & maybe I'll add a signature to my profile sometime, but if anyone is interested they can ask us & we'll direct them no problem. Not specifically related to chastity as most of the chastity porn tends to be heavily laced with humiliation and/or cuckoldry & neither of us seem to have inclinations in either of those directions (yet lol).

Thanks for the welcomes & welcome to those newer than I