You need to make some sort of written agreement what's on the table and what's off.
Then get your own lock and keys and the next time he is unlocked re lock with the new one and after that you could tell him but that's up to you.
I would hide the other keys apart from one (for you or emergency) in a very good place like inside a plant pot with soil inside (Get creative).
If you are including physical punishment i cant really help you there as we don't include that.
Thank you to everyone for the advise and responses. A lot of good suggestions and new things to research and try for us.
A few points of clarification.
My boyfriend whole heartedly enjoys the opportunity to be trained and requested to be locked up. I would never have initiated locking if he hadn't agreed to it. In fact, when the new device we ordered arrived, he surprised me by willingly putting on the device before I got home from work that day. We don't have a written agreement documenting expectations. What we do have is an 8 year relationship founded on trust and respect for each other. Locking and denying and other controlled required behaviors, such as a requirement to wear panties I lay out for him on a daily bais, has, in fact, only added to our relationship. We have fun with it and it gets us both off. That's the point, right?
I've since given my little cock his own key so he can feel more in control. He says he likes to have the lock on the device, just not actually locked. Silly cock:-)
Our new device is on it's way, due to arrive in about a month. I ordered it because the current CB6000S we have he claims isn't comfortable enough for him to wear more than an hour or two. I think this is just an excuse to not wear it so he can get hard at his leisure. So if there are any suggestions on "comfortable" devices that can be worn for more than a few hours, e.g. while at work, sitting at a desk, standing/walking around, etc., please send me your suggestions.
CB6000S
Is it the Official one or the Knock off.
Knock off has Grooves in the Rings / if so there is lots of info here about modifications or have a look online for official ring replacements
Lock_And_Key wrote:So if there are any suggestions on "comfortable" devices that can be worn for more than a few hours, e.g. while at work, sitting at a desk, standing/walking around, etc., please send me your suggestions.
I am not pierced so I have only used testicle trapping devices. I find the holy trainer 2 to be the most comfortable for me but realize everyone is a little different. I have size small and cannot get erect in it. I also have a ring size (med) that works perfectly for me. I barely fit my cock through the ring. On the negative I must remove the ring for sex as it is too small when erect and very painful (I only tried it once which was enough).
I think to make the game exciting you need to know that he is not using the key. The plastic numbered locks can be used for this. Just lock it somewhere where he cannot use it. Mine is in a slot in my wallet. We also thought of the wiring behind the dash of a car ( good luck getting unlocked without cutting the plastic lock). He has access to the key in an emergency but you will know if he used the key.
Lock_And_Key wrote: So if there are any suggestions on "comfortable" devices that can be worn for more than a few hours, e.g. while at work, sitting at a desk, standing/walking around, etc., please send me your suggestions.
Holy Trainer 2 is almost invisible to the wearer, if that makes sense. Slight element of risk in that some of us have experienced breakages. However customer service seems fine.
