Hi all, new member with a few questions

[Stevo1983uk]

Hello there, I'm wondering how other peoples experiences are going with chastity. Me and my wife started experimenting with chastity over 4 years ago now. It started off as a bit of fun to spice up our love life but it soon turned into a very serious part of our marriage (for her) I don't think she is worried about me cheating on her but that's how it feels!


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I'm just curious if anyone else has experienced this

[Michele]

Hi there and welcome... could you please go and Read this before posting.

[Stevo1983uk]

Hi

I did read the forum rules prior to posting, can't see how I have broken any sort of rule?

[Atone]

Hi

I did read the forum rules prior to posting, can't see how I have broken any sort of rule?

You're fine Stevo, we just request that new members post an intro in the "hello world" thread. Welcome to the forum.

[Stevo1983uk]

Hi atone

I have now written a hello world post

Thanks

[Michele]

Hi atone

I have now written a hello world post

Thanks

^5

Thanks and welcome again!

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome to the Forum Stevo1983uk. From my personal experience I wouldn't read to much into your KH wanting the cage on.

When this happened we had been playing with chastity about a year. We had a night of fun and the cage was off in the morning. LRC and I were going to spend a Saturday together doing errands. When we got ready to leave we had this conversation.
"Is the cage was on."
"No."
"Put it on."
"Why, we're going to be together all day?"
"I just like the idea that's it's on."

That's when it hit me that she had embraced what I had requested of her, to be in control of me. I've never questioned her reasons for me to wear the cage again.

[Stevo1983uk]

Hey, thanks for the reply.

The trouble is, she will only let me take it off when we have sex. The moment we finish she puts it back on herself. It's been like this for the last 4 years now. I work away quite a lot and it just feels like it's really turned into a trust issue. It's not the cb itself. I've been wearing it long enough not to notice.

[notbeinfringed85]

If it ain't fun, quit. Communication is the biggest part of chastity.

[locked4her55]

If it ain't fun, quit. Communication is the biggest part of chastity.

Agree. Both parties have to be invested in this to work. If you are getting nothing from it then cut the damn thing off and communicate to your wife why this just isn't doing anything for you.