Ever want to turn the tables?

[Michele]

We are going to test this out and you guys well have the privilege of knowing before we post to our blog, I'm sure.

[Michele]

Belt came in the mail yesterday... it fits so that's a huge plus. We found that we have three locks so maybe this weekend we'll take it for a test run!

[slave d]

i'm a bit late saying what happened with our switch date night but W/we've had computer issues. So W/we had our switch night last Saturday and it started really well. MsM became slave m and d became Sir. m was then tasked to prepare the bedroom for Sir's playtime as d would usually do for MsM with towels on the bed, toys warming in hot water (fleshlight and lube) and she was dressed in a slutty fishnet outfit with garter belt and stockings (also fishnet) and a pair of very high heeled "fuck me" shoes. Sir had her get on all 4s on the bed (as d has to for discipline) and teased her with a flogger he had purchased (she doesn't like pain at all so Sir was gentle with her). Then she was fitted with Sir's chastity belt which fit well considering it's cost but did chafe a little. Then playtime began in earnest with Sir recieving the kind of attention that MsM usually recieves. Sir eventually had his first orgasm in 35 days without m having any pleasure except a taste of the result !!! (not her favourite lol). After this there was champagne and cheese on biscuits before dinner which was prepared by slave m of course !!

Really that was as far as things went as Sir found his orgasm had completely reversed his headspace to the extent that he no longer "wanted" to push the other switch events he had planned for the night. So overall an interesting and learning event particularly for Sir/d.

in the end i was very happy to relock on Sunday morning !!

d

[juniorhubby]

My wife absolutely hates being teased, and doesn't understand how I could ever be content by not having orgasms. Every once in awhile when I'm giving her manual stimulation, I'll give her a tease by pulling away. I think this is hot, but she admits later that she doesn't like it all that much. Plus there's the issue of me having a higher sex drive and knowing she doesn't get the same experience that I do. So although I would like to turn the tables sometimes, it's not in the cards.

[locked4her55]

My wife absolutely hates being teased, and doesn't understand how I could ever be content by not having orgasms. Every once in awhile when I'm giving her manual stimulation, I'll give her a tease by pulling away. I think this is hot, but she admits later that she doesn't like it all that much.

My wife feels the same way. I love being teased, she dislikes it. She has admitted on several occasions that it does nothing for her to the point that it ruins the experience.

Just another clue to the differences between us and how much communication is important.

[Michele]

Right, I'm not much into the teasing but I can handle a little cute teasing... it's the edging that ruins it for me so we have agreed that there will be none of that!

[LockedUpNewb]

My wife also hates teasing or edging. She said it ruins the experience for her. She likes a very soft, slow tease in the beginning and then slowly worked up into a big fast, towel soaking finale'. I love making her squirt, so over 15yrs I've learned exactly what it takes to push her over the edge. It took less than 3 minutes last night. (yes, I was watching the clock on my night stand)